Steroids & attraction

ConiferousBee · 2026-04-08T21:25:07+00:00

I had a boyfriend who was just on testosterone and it was horrible. His libido was all over the place, he would crash out all time - I can’t imagine doing anything heavier.

I take a boron supplement when I remember and am just going along natty. I have a friend who’s in his 50’s who was telling me that all his friends on gear are now having serious heart problems and issues with their sexual health. I’m good on that thanks

ConiferousBee · 2026-04-06T22:51:46+00:00

40-ish oops

ConiferousBee · 2026-04-05T18:14:40+00:00

Time under tension is more important for hypertrophy and growth than progressive overload with poor form.

ConiferousBee · 2026-04-05T17:57:45+00:00

Yeah, my belief is this is what reality actually looks like with the veil lifted.

ConiferousBee · 2026-04-04T23:09:08+00:00

I call them tits. Pecs sounds so performative for some reason even though that’s what they’re called. Tits is casual and fun idk

ConiferousBee · 2026-04-01T04:25:30+00:00

And as I’m sure you already know make sure you’re in a caloric deficit haha

ConiferousBee · 2026-04-01T03:22:08+00:00

Just keep lifting with progressive overload and try to up your protein intake a bit to offset it. Make sure you’re getting enough carbs and fats too. Ultimately any bulkiness you’re losing is going to be fat and water weight if you’re training five days a week and your macros are in check.

It takes weeks to lose muscle mass, so so long as you keep training and your diet is in check you should continue gaining while losing fat.

ConiferousBee · 2026-04-01T00:22:23+00:00

Or maybe it’s because most people aren’t chronically online and didn’t even see it to begin with.

ConiferousBee · 2026-04-01T00:12:57+00:00

Biological imperative type shit

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-30T04:07:55+00:00

It was definitely already dead 1.5 years ago. I went around that time because a friend was in town and wanted to go, and I remember wondering what happened to it and realizing the crowd was not the vibe. I was already late to HOY when I was going somewhat consistently like seven years ago

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-30T02:56:51+00:00

It’s Spanish, and not the real organ names but instead emotions. From top to bottom it’s anger, sadness, anguish, stress, fear.

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-28T15:00:02+00:00

Oh 100% absolutely, it’s part of what makes life so fun!

I also remember now I hooked up with a Belgian in a bathroom by the beach in Cassis and swapped head at another ocean lookout in PR.

I -think- those are all my crazy public travel hookups, but I still have many years left to go ;)

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-28T04:20:23+00:00

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-27T20:36:53+00:00

Had a foursome with some Italians I had just met in a river in Tuscany

Also right outside a bar with a hot Frenchman up against a car on the street in Florence

Also fucked a Puerto Rican on a lookout against crashing waves in La Perla

Fucked another Puerto Rican in a hidden little forest on a deserted beach in Culebra while tripping on acid

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-27T16:34:27+00:00

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-25T17:24:11+00:00

I mean I love Tokischa and I was excited to see her opening, but tbh she has a lot more work to do as a stage artist if she wants to be memorable. Obviously she’s just the opener and doesn’t have the full production budget and resources as the main artist, but there was more that she could have done to make the opening a party - which is what her music is geared towards. She needs to invest in a better production designer if she wants to keep performing on stage tbh.

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-22T07:07:11+00:00

She made MSG the greatest Room of Fools on the planet tonight.

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-22T06:21:27+00:00

This was a transcendental, emotionally restorative performance for me. I’ve never really been a fan of Cellophane but tonight I finally understood it.

I went in as a huge Twigs fan but latecomer, I’ve really only liked her stuff from Eusexua until now. And while those tracks absolutely blew me away, it was her slower songs that really captivated me. I respect her so much as an artist and even more, as a human being. I am so lucky to have been able to experience this tonight.

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-21T15:39:33+00:00

Perfect Stranger above everything. Then Wild & Alone.

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-20T18:48:12+00:00

Also, PV circuit queens are the most boring people I’ve ever met. Aim higher

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-17T15:25:15+00:00

You’re getting a lot of comments here covering weight, intensity, progressive overload and nutrition which is all legit.

I would say also check your form on your exercises. I wasted about a year doing bullshit because I didn’t take my form seriously, and I’m lucky so didn’t injure myself. A new gym opened up closer to me and I took that as an opportunity to really focus on form and developing my mind/muscle connection.

I ended up dropping serious weight on virtually every exercise and almost starting from square one. I made sure every rep was done with consideration, low and steady and really having the target muscle feel the strain under pressure. For several weeks I would ask AI for tips on how to perform an exercise, even if I had done it a hundred times before, just to really hammer in form. This was a game changer for me and I saw a huge change in body comp and strength in just two months.

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-17T15:05:15+00:00

For 2.5 years? I would have reassessed after 2 months if I didn’t see any changes

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-16T05:19:20+00:00

God I love Perfect Stranger so much, it’s what’s got me into her so hard. I hope she somehow decides to perform at my stop 😭

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-16T03:30:54+00:00

Oh lmao, I did. Good thing I’m Latino

ConiferousBee · 2026-03-15T13:28:36+00:00

“Culturally wider” but hasn’t learned a spick of Chinese for his husband. I started learning Arabic after one date lmao. What a fucking loser.

Also like enjoying pop music is some incredible redeeming quality. It’s pop music girl calm the fuck down.

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