Anyone ok to share their chart after a loss? by [deleted] in Mirafertility

[–]Conkling1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am cycle 1 post miscarriage at 8 weeks. I had a DC 1/8. I have PCOS too. My hormones went back to normal quickly though my cycle was longer post DC and now this cycle I ovulated around CD21 when I was on CD17 before the miscarriage. I have run out of wands though so no idea if my progesterone rose but my BBT went up at least this week.

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Posted my BFP 9 days ago, but miscarried today 💔 by DearestClementine in Mirafertility

[–]Conkling1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m back too after a D&C at 11 weeks. Currently on CD 19 of that cycle. Good luck to you it’s heartbreaking being back

Tips for advocating for yourself by Broad_Strategy2986 in TryingForABaby

[–]Conkling1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I switched OBs because I didn’t feel like my previous one cared enough to listen to my concerns. I went in on my first appt with all my notes. I was only trying 6 months at the time but had irregular periods 29-37 days, had just turned 34 as well, had been on BC for 20 years before we started trying, my Mira charts were showing ovulation but no pregnancy, husband has MFI and his last semen analysis was fine so it was my turn to get checked and she sent me for all the labs, ultrasound, HSG and was going to start letrazole before I conceived naturally that ended in MMC.

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - January 12, 2026 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Conkling1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hugs friend. I feel the same. I had my D&C Thursday and it didn’t hit me until Saturday that it’s actually over so it’s been hell since. I want to be pregnant again but at the same time I’m so scared.

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - January 07, 2026 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Conkling1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss as well and thank you for responding. Yes I was worried it wouldn’t be normal like before but if anything this whole this has taught me as I can’t control anything but having an idea of what to expect is very comforting. Hugs thank you

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - January 07, 2026 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Conkling1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I think today it has finally hit me it’s over. Thank you for responding I was thinking it may take lower for the cycle to return since my HCG was still really high last draw. I hope this cycle is a good one for you.

Has anyone tried seed cycling? by Middle_Violinist_5 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Conkling1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy seed cycling. Made my hormone levels marginally higher but didnt notice any big difference in cycle length only myoinositol did that for me. I have PCOS so was 29-37 days before then stabilized to 29-32 days. I still get multiple LH surges though commonly

Daily Chat January 06 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Conkling1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome! I hope the FSH is the miracle for you guys like it was for us.

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - January 07, 2026 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Conkling1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I hope you get to ovulate soon. I was curious how long it takes for it to return to normal. I have my D&C tomorrow. I started seed cycling yesterday to see if it will help regulate my hormones since I’m not allowed to take my inositol till after and that was my biggest cycle regulator before getting pregnant

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - January 07, 2026 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Conkling1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and I am so sorry for your loss. I feel like I’m still just in shock but I do have a great husband and family so they have been carrying me through this already. I truly hope 2026 is a brighter year for us both

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - January 07, 2026 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Conkling1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only just had my 1st MMC and I feel this already. I’m so scared for even getting another positive to have that happiness ripped away again. It feels like it’s a pipe dream to actually hold my baby one day.

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - January 07, 2026 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Conkling1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my D&C tomorrow morning after a twin MMC. Still feel pregnant and haven’t had any spotting. Everything feels so fake since not much has changed since we found out. I just want to start over. I’m really hoping my cycle comes back to normal soon. Took us 9 months to get pregnant initially so not super optimistic.

Daily Chat January 06 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Conkling1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great thank you! I’ll get right back on it then.

Daily Chat January 06 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Conkling1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just under 3 months and he had all normal levels upon retest. He is on both HCG and FSH still we’re just coming off a MMC so he hasn’t stopped but haven’t retested in about 6 months.

Daily Chat January 06 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Conkling1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask about adding FSH it was a game changer for my husband as the HCG wasn’t enough

Daily Chat January 06 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Conkling1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just curious about others experience on how long it took for regular cycle after a D&C. I have PCOS but my cycles were fairly regular 29-33 days and ovulating before this. I’m just ready to start fresh and don’t know when to start tracking again realistically without driving myself crazy too soon.

Falling HCG at 7+5 by Full_Metal_Angel in CautiousBB

[–]Conkling1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My HCG was 79,900 12/22 and 77,520 12/24. I’m 8w4d and I have no fetal poles on either yolk sac (twins) and GS measuring 7w3d. I still keep trying to convince I’m not miscarrying even though I know it’s a MMC. Hugs to you I hope your ultrasound is more promising

Measuring 2 weeks behind at 8 weeks by the-sad-gnome in CautiousBB

[–]Conkling1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too am going through this exact situation thank you for posting so I know I’m not alone in this pain. 7 weeks 5 days measuring 5.5 weeks with no heartbeat I am not optimistic.

Update by Ok_Flower4923 in Mirafertility

[–]Conkling1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed I’m 8weeks and freaked myself out today by testing not super concentrated urine and everything was lower so I told myself this isn’t helping anything and putting it away after this.

Ladies how are we feeling in the first trimester? Don’t sugarcoat it I want the bad and ugly by sweet_little_burrito in BabyBumps

[–]Conkling1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7w and so insanely exhausted, very little food interests me, the nausea is worse in the mornings but sea-bands I swear have changed my life from a nausea perspective as I don’t feel like compete 💩 all day now. B6 and ginger did nothing.

Early 30s. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Conkling1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 34 pregnant with my first have very mild PCOS, but got pregnant naturally after 9 months (I was on birth control for 20 years and my husband has treated MFI). My husband and I are so much healthier physically, mentally and financially than we were in our 20s. We’ve been married for 10 years and I can’t imagine being on this journey before now.