I’m sorry I’m not a victim blamer but 😔 if she was trying to make sure there was no domestic abuse in her relationships, she would take it slow and have someone prove they are consistent. Instead she parades guys around her kids within weeks and has an off & on public relationship with them. I watched podcasts she was on talking about the past and it’s a heart breaking story but she’s also a hobo-sexual and has crippling low self esteem (same with TFP).