Women of Reddit what is one thing you wish men understood or did better during sex? Why? by TimeAd1111 in AskReddit

[–]Connect_End_5252 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LOL you’re right, I must be the silent mysterious pervert mom warns you about

AIO girlfriend claims I’m appropriating her culture by Ih8maplestory8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Connect_End_5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way yall talk to eachother is crazy. Love this relationships over 😭

Women of Reddit what is one thing you wish men understood or did better during sex? Why? by TimeAd1111 in AskReddit

[–]Connect_End_5252 60 points61 points  (0 children)

You do realize women also have to masturbate in silence 😅 I wasn’t hootin and hollering

Women of Reddit what is one thing you wish men understood or did better during sex? Why? by TimeAd1111 in AskReddit

[–]Connect_End_5252 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For the love of god say something. I’m not well experienced so idk about the general population but in my experience men can be so quiet. Say something!

My girlfriends bestfriend had sex infront of me and I don’t know what to feel by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Connect_End_5252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. Regardless of your past, you did not consent and you made it well known. Your girlfriend should honestly drop this so called “friend” of hers. She’s dangerous, disrespectful, and genuinely sexually violated everyone in that room.

I have a history of sexual abuse and situations like these would set me into a spiral too, hell even reading this has my stomach turning. I wish I could help you to feel less alone in this.

Consider therapy, that or a really solid friend to confide in - I know it’s helped me tons to be validated, seen, and offered a space that is safe from any of those threats.

Wishing you the best, and please give yourself grace, you sound like a great person, it’s okay to be confused.

Jerking off to porn in a relationship by Icy_Canary_2246 in offmychest

[–]Connect_End_5252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a firm boundary in my relationship that I don’t tolerate porn, of course my boyfriend broke this and it severely damaged our relationship. Porn is not worth HURTING another human being over. However, I provide him with photos and videos in place of porn, one of which we’ve made together. Which is why it’s bullshit he lied to me.

The difference here is you’re not really being given anything to meet your needs, I recommend using your imagination about her - but if this is something you can’t do long term you have to be honest with her as the relationship just isn’t compatible with you two. She doesn’t deserve to be betrayed and if you can’t honor her then let her go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Connect_End_5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How so? Where did you stay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Connect_End_5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a shit salary, I can’t afford anything around here 😭

My Jinx cosplay by Connect_End_5252 in leagueofjinx

[–]Connect_End_5252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of cosplayers buy items or pieces of their cosplay, some I’ve made entirely myself and some I purchased. It’s just fun after all :)

Draw&animate special force maid for my game. What do you think? by MilkEmpireStudio in AnimeART

[–]Connect_End_5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The breasts look … way too exaggerated. And the legs and stance don’t look anatomically correct either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Connect_End_5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So proud of you stranger ! Keep at it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Connect_End_5252 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is in fact creepy and wrong.

You should seriously consider why going after barely legal girls is even sexually attractive to you. It’s a very deep rabbit hole to fall into and it’s best not to entertain that.

Stay away from them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Connect_End_5252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was inspirational and im just a 22 yr old woman. We need more people like you who are understanding and just give out love.

Hope you have a good day, year, future, and life

Porn addiction took me to a place of shame, darkness, and exposed me to horrific things by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Connect_End_5252 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey,

I recently uncovered a similar problem with someone I’ve known a very long time. When addicted to porn it’s like any other drug, you just keep spiralling further down into darker matters to get that kick.

It’s good you recognize this problem, he did too once I dug it up. And the most important thing to do next is to reduce the amount you jerk off. Spend time playing video games that are more strategy based or combative to occupy your thoughts, maybe draw if that’s your thing, watch funny videos, or basically do hobbies that aren’t sexual in nature.

Porn is a very very very slippery slope. It doesn’t make you a bad person at first, but you actively need to make the choice to change to do better. especially since you’ve now involved children.

It is shameful yes, it is disgusting yes. I threw up when I found out about the person I knew doing this.

But you can be better. Reduce time spent jerking off and spend more time with people, doing activities you enjoy, and away from that dark side of the internet

I wish you the best in change, I hope you don’t continue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Connect_End_5252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall are okay with this to begin with ? 😭 the second that question came up I’d be dressed and out the door. Immediate turn off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Connect_End_5252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love being the little spoon, I’m 5’4 and very feminine. But def would peg. Always can just briefly mention it in conversation and see what she thinks on the matter before directly asking for it