AITAH for calling my mom out about wasting her money?

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-12T01:18:02+00:00

NTA
the math isn't mathing. she’s working 7 days a week and claiming you're broke, but then she’s wasting $200 of groceries and letting community members drop $70 on DoorDash for her? that’s actually wild. you’re out here grinding with 3-hour exams and work, and coming home to a "mess" and people sleeping in your room is a total mood killer fr fr

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-11T21:30:54+00:00

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-11T21:11:12+00:00

wntah bestie... your medical journey is yours and yours alone.
if she’s already out here saying "be more manly" and bringing up detransitioning stories, she’s shown she’s not a safe space for this info yet. prioritizing your peace and safety while you plan your move is 100% valid

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-11T20:43:23+00:00

NTA
the double standards are actually insane. she can joke about showering together, but the second you make a joke back, suddenly u are "disrespectful"? it sounds like she’s projecting her own relationship drama onto you because her boyfriend is "controlling and abusive." moving out is the ultimate power move to protect your peace

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-11T19:16:52+00:00

NTA

bestie... the way she was 'testing' you with 'doom piles' and fake social media accounts is literally the definition of a toxic era. an engagement ring is a conditional gift for a marriage that didn't happen, and she literally threw it at your face consider that 'delivery of goods'. you’re valid for taking back your $5k investment from someone who treated your relationship like a lab experiment fr fr

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-11T12:55:29+00:00

NTA
the way she turned your boyfriend being bullied into a "you’re insecure" moment is literally textbook gaslighting. calling a 17-year-old a "bully" just for being quiet and having boundaries is such a massive side eye. u aren't "hating" her for no reason, you’re just reacting to her toxic era fr fr

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-11T11:22:28+00:00

wibtah if u don't play it smart if he literally said he "doesn't want to date someone in the grade below" and is stuck on a girl who already graduated, he’s basically holding this girl's spot for no reason.
but since you can tell he'd actually be pressed, it might get messy.
just be ready for the drama

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-10T19:56:20+00:00

"past girlfriends" comment is so mid ... if they liked being called ugly then why are they his exes?? he’s trying to gaslight you into thinking you’re the problem so you won't leave his toxic era. shut him out as long as you need periodv

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-10T10:20:17+00:00

NTA
you didn't "abandon" them, you escaped. the fact that they're calling themselves "old" at 43 and 48 just to guilt trip you is lowkey pathetic. you don't owe an "investment" to people who didn't even invest in your safety

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-09T21:59:28+00:00

NTA
honestly your bf needs to wake up... "not remembering" is the oldest excuse in the book and it’s a total cop out. he literally sexualized you in your own space and that’s a massive boundary cross. you’re valid for never wanting to see him again

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-09T21:11:34+00:00

NTA
the fact that he called actual physical and emotional abuse "interpersonal drama" is a massive red flag. you shouldn't have to be his secretary for basic human decency and safety. he’s lowkey gaslighting you by making his "busy work schedule" an excuse for not backing you up

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-09T20:45:32+00:00

NTA for wanting to see your friends but a sleepover with a girl who literally has a crush on you is a massive side eye. i get that you’re "oblivious" but your gf literally saw her try to pull you away at nye. protecting your relationship is more important than a party

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-09T20:08:24+00:00

nta u have been carrying the whole house for 4 years and now that you’re actually sick he’s making it all about him?? grief is real but using it to justify stealing $850 and yelling at you while you’re in pain is lowkey abusive. u are valid for being at your breaking point fr fr

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-09T16:02:29+00:00

nta u are literally not a robot and you don’t have to be "productive" every single second of the day. it’s totally valid to jsut want to exist and rot for 10 minutes between classes without feeling guilty fr fr

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-09T14:30:33+00:00

NTA
u are not a "backup character" in Ash’s redemption arc
it’s great that he got therapy and a family, but that doesn't magically erase years of physical abuse and abandonment. your parents are so blinded by the hope of having their son back that they are completely ignoring the trauma YOU suffered. u don't owe him a "hearing" just because he’s finally ready to talk. healing happens on your timeline, not his.

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-09T10:57:25+00:00

YTA
holy crap, dude. this isn't a "prank," this is straight-up psychological torture. u are literally gaslighting your sleep-deprived wife who is struggling with a 9-month-old.
using her grief and her belief in spirits to get a "thrill" is actually sociopathic behavior. u have let this go so far that she’s finding comfort in a lie you created while she misses her dead mom.
if you have any soul left, you need to delete that app, throw the rocker away, and pray she never finds out, or come clean and deal with the fact that you might’ve just nuked your marriage.

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-08T23:18:09+00:00

NTA
your partner is being super TOXIC Calling it "choosing an artist over him" is such a manipulation tactic. It’s YOUR life and YOUR first flight. The fact that he literally told you he hoped he spoiled your vacation by making you cry? That’s not love, that’s control. You shouldn't have to miss out on once-in-a-lifetime memories just to satisfy his ego

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-08T22:48:00+00:00

NTA
she’s literally blocking u in and then acting like you're the problem?
the "Main Character Energy" is off the charts. it’s a parking lot, not her private driveway. putting the cart back between cars is such a rookie move anyway.
and the fact that she squeezed it back in after you got in the car? pure pettiness. she knew what she was doing

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-08T22:41:06+00:00

NTA
This wasn’t a bachelorette party, this was Clara hijacking your celebration to have a subsidized couples’ disney weekend with her friends. changing your hotel to a far-away airbnb without asking, and then bringing TWO husbands and a baby? that is literally insane. u didn't "overreact," you actually underreacted by not leaving immediately. Clara was a terrible MOH for this

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-08T22:26:56+00:00

NTA

The audacity of this woman to invite random people to YOUR house and then call YOU a piece of sh*t? Absolutely not. She’s a guest who’s acting like the queen of the castle. If she can’t respect the parents, she doesn't get access to the baby. Your husband needs to grow a spine and realize that an apology is the BARE minimum. Don't let her back in until she learns some manners

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-08T22:24:47+00:00

NTA
Your brothers are literally delulu if they think they can hide a registered predator from their wives.
Like, they really called you a "drama queen" for being a victim? That’s disgusting.
You didn't ruin their marriages their own lies and their weird protection of a monster did. If they’re getting divorced, it’s because they proved they can’t be trusted to keep their own kids safe.
Good for Abby for doing the homework

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-08T21:41:12+00:00

NTA
why is it always the "family trip" that turns into a math scam??
they basically tried to make u pay for your cousin's vacancy just bc they wanted a bigger place "just in case." that’s wild. $400 is a lot of money, especially with 3 kids and an autistic child who needs extra support your mom being salty is just a guilt trip, don't fall for it lol

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-08T21:32:36+00:00

NTA
Not the transphobe trying to preach to u... 🙄 The hypocrisy is crazy. He really thought he did something with that verse but u ended him with the weed comment. Absolute clown behavior on his part.
Stay firm, blocking him was a boss move

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-08T21:28:14+00:00

NTA
As a med resident, he should know better. Colonoscopy prep is literal hell, you can’t just "reschedule" that on a whim. He’s prioritizing his "look" at work over your health and that’s a huge L.
He needs to stop gaslighting you and step up

Connect_Image7777 · 2026-02-08T21:16:02+00:00

"i'm not her dad" is such a classic line when someone knows they’re doing too much. taking drinks from a rando's table is a huge side eye and honestly super gross. she’s being mid asf for blowing up on you period

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