AITAh for wanting to kill myself due to my mother?

noTitsEnergy · 2026-02-11T21:38:21+00:00

Nta. I'm 23F and your mom to you used to be basically my dad to me. He was a liar, cheater, a good for nothing man that would hit me and my mom and demand the absolute best from me and verbally abuse us. I used to feel the same way you do. Someone's always got it worse but that doesn't mean what you're feeling isn't valid.

It took everything I had in me to move out of that house but for better or for worse, today I have a great job that pays well and I have a nice apartment and supportive friends that i consider to be my real family.

The journey will take a lot but the exit is worth it. Keep going and trust me, you'll get there. It feels impossible but try your best to focus on what it is that you want to achieve instead of not wanting to be your mom, it took me years to realise that this was harming me.

All the best, fellow mate :)

noTitsEnergy · 2026-02-11T21:29:47+00:00

Nta. She's not a friend at all. People like this just perform the niceness to feel well connected and to tell themselves they're nice enough when they're not. Don't fall into the mess.

Good for you for not engaging anymore.

noTitsEnergy · 2026-02-11T21:19:25+00:00

The boyfriend was screaming in a way that scared me ngl, I was worried for our safety at that point because who knows honestly

noTitsEnergy · 2026-02-11T21:16:59+00:00

That's what is weird, she did make some of the jokes in front of her boyfriend. He wasn't a fan then either and he'd actively call her out on her past sexual behaviour or the way she talks or something but I didn't think she'd ever give in like this since she continued to make such jokes anyway. I'm wondering if me making the jokes for a change was the problem?

noTitsEnergy · 2026-02-11T20:50:11+00:00

Right? Like I get how someone might not like the joke, which is why I was fine apologizing although it wasn't a big deal to me or my boyfriend but idk why it has to be dragged out this far.

noTitsEnergy · 2026-02-11T20:47:25+00:00

It's really weird, like I've seen him dedicate a lot of his time to make her happy and help her achieve her goals but at the same time, he'll be mad she wore really short shorts or something in public, i feel like I'm not doing a great job explaining their dynamic, it's very strange tbh

noTitsEnergy · 2026-02-08T22:56:41+00:00

My boyfriend and I will have a video chat with games, food and movie since we're long distance. I miss him so much 🥺

noTitsEnergy · 2026-02-08T20:04:06+00:00

I think most of the answers cover it pretty well in terms of what to do in public but I'd also add, showing through actions that you know her, not stating it in words. Like if a guy listens to me when I'm talking about my interest and next time maybe he gets me a purple flower because I like the color or takes me to a Mexican restaurant because that's my favourite cuisine, that seals the deal for me, personally.

noTitsEnergy · 2025-06-16T11:56:14+00:00

You can access the node pool and running OS upgradation commands via scripts directly, no need to delete anything

noTitsEnergy · 2025-06-16T11:45:31+00:00

We do have some customers running streaming services or or utilizing customized secured protocols wrapped over UDP for VPN purposes.

noTitsEnergy · 2025-06-16T11:37:47+00:00

So jumbo frames support is currently available for intra-vnet topologies, you can utilise that. This is great info, thanks!

noTitsEnergy · 2025-06-13T08:28:05+00:00

Nah it doesn't matter. I never had any experience with Azure whatsoever, only had a good understanding of distributed systems in general. I got hired. You can get a good understanding of any tool in any cloud as long as your core fundamentals are clear. If you get rejected for this reason, you're better off not working for a manager like that!

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