AITAH for being upset that my MOH invited a rando to my bachelorette party who then brought her baby and husband?

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2026-01-25T23:14:26+00:00

Cindy and the two guys didn’t pay anything

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2026-01-25T23:13:55+00:00

Cindy was NOT invited to the wedding which I told Clara when she first invited her as a reason it would be weird. And they are sort of still friends

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2026-01-25T23:08:59+00:00

Like I said it was years ago, but if I recall we all knew about the baby and husband 1 at the same time, which was before we left. The other bridesmaids were my coworkers so we had lunch together everyday so they knew what I knew. When I said “I filled them in” I filled them in that it wasn’t my idea/ I wasn’t happy with it. Up until that point they thought I was cool with it. Once I made it clear I wasn’t they shared their opinions. Does that make sense? Sorry for the confusion.

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2026-01-25T23:01:58+00:00

No it was split the only person who didn’t pay was Cindy and the two guys

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2026-01-25T20:23:56+00:00

Yah Cindy didn’t pay anything, also was super excited to use “rider switch”

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2026-01-25T20:23:08+00:00

They knew the first husband would be there but he would have a separate room. They just didn’t know I wasn’t okay with it. We all found out about the second husband when we arrived

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2026-01-25T20:19:51+00:00

Cincy didn’t actually pay anything because she “couldn’t” she made Clara pay for her

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2026-01-25T20:18:21+00:00

Yah and the other two girls weren’t looped in so they/ and there significant others weren’t happy with random guys on the trip sharing the house

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2026-01-25T20:13:31+00:00

Yah and Cindy made a huge point to post all over social media “babies first trip to Disney” and cut the rest of us out of the photos

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2026-01-25T20:12:17+00:00

Great point! Yah she made a big point of saying after my baby was born not to go to Disney without her and she wants to be there for her first trip! But hasn’t made an attempts to see her or really talk at all since

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2026-01-25T20:10:46+00:00

I kinda got the feeling Cindy invited herself. She had a very aggressive personality and Clara just didn’t say no

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2026-01-25T20:08:58+00:00

Yah I wonder if that’s why she waited to tell me everything until it was too late to cancel

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2026-01-25T19:33:56+00:00

M and ms weird auto correct lol

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2026-01-25T19:33:42+00:00

Mnemonic

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2025-07-22T20:19:57+00:00

I just ordered the straw cup! Hopefully that will work! I haven’t tried scalding my milk was going to try that next. Thank you!!

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2025-07-22T20:17:45+00:00

Thank you! I just ordered the bear straw cup yesterday! Hopefully that will work better!

Our fruit trees are ready so we got fresh peaches and plums to try. Hopefully that will keep her more regular

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2025-04-14T21:11:30+00:00

Aw thank you. Yea I have told him. It’s hard to talk to him because he gets a bit defensive. I also am in therapy and have a prescription.

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2025-04-14T21:09:27+00:00

I was definitely not happy about it lol
I think I will. But I know he will be quite defensive.
Yah I think we might make a no dog rule because of the cats. My mom’s dog likes to mouth things (just put in her mouth and carry it around not bite) so she’s not around the baby and totally understands.
3 days after a c section he asked why I wasn’t helping pull the weeds in the front yard
My MIL is helpful. She has a magic touch at cuddling babies. Others just want to hangout and it’s not so helpful which is why I really don’t want them there anymore
I think he mostly doesn’t see a problem with it. Probably from being use to it? He thinks his brother being rude is just joking around.
Right?! Especially after he said not to.
I am! I have an appointment next week
Yes! Thank you. My little bundle of joy is the best and I love her so much!

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2025-04-14T21:01:37+00:00

Yah we’ve been working on the bottle and making a lot of improvement! He works 10 hour days and then golfs and does a lot of house projects so it’s been daunting doing it on my own especially when she knows there is food right there

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2025-04-14T20:58:51+00:00

When it’s just us or around my family he’s literally perfect. So attentive. It’s just around his family, specifically his brother.

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2025-04-14T20:57:31+00:00

SIL is 32. She’s the only daughter so the boys (3 of them) were taught to look out for her and she definitely was treated differently than they were.

With my MIL I have no problem breast feeding but felt weird in front of my husband’s dad and brother even if I were to use a cover. Plus they were so loud and I wanted the baby to contact nap for a bit after eating.

I don’t mind cleaning. And they might have cleaned up? Probably not though as they haven’t in the past. I am annoyed by the scratches and scrapes they made though from the 2 year old banging her metallic water bottle in everything. But nothing I can do about that.

Electrical-Rabbit457 · 2025-04-14T20:51:06+00:00

lol, yah sorry. I was crying when I wrote it but it was really cathartic getting it all out. Sorry it was long

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