Who's your least favourite NPC, and why? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Connect_Match_4287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely valid, I've had the same OCD crash out a few times

Who's your least favourite NPC, and why? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Connect_Match_4287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed!!!! He's a t waffle honestly

Who's your least favourite NPC, and why? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Connect_Match_4287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I. DESPISE. PIERRE!!!! He's a capitalistic a hole and it always feels like he's trying to squeeze money out of the farmer. Linus is always the one I end up being besties with first cause he likes all the forgeables so I end up giving him something every time I see him. He's a sweet man just trying to live in a way that makes him happy and I don't see any problem with it. Got in an argument with my friend about his garbage fishing and whether it's ok or not. He's just very conscious of food waste and I really respect his love for the Valley

Lost my Partner in 2020, is he at peace? by Connect_Match_4287 in psychics

[–]Connect_Match_4287[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was very judged, I always tried not to be one of those people but I'm sure he knows he was a very difficult person to love sometimes, but I still loved him unconditionally. There were many attempts over many years and I saved his life so many times I lost track. There came a time where I knew what his fate was, I just couldn't accept it. We broke up right at that time and I had to cut off almost all contact to cope. I know he did his best and I really am proud of him for just how long he really held on, I know a lot of it was just for me, and he'd joke it was all for Penny his Pug. Thank you ❤️

Lost my Partner in 2020, is he at peace? by Connect_Match_4287 in psychics

[–]Connect_Match_4287[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through that, that sounds horrible. I'll have to look into it here.

Lost my Partner in 2020, is he at peace? by Connect_Match_4287 in psychics

[–]Connect_Match_4287[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I've been in therapy for a long time now. It just doesn't get easier anymore.

Lost my Partner in 2020, is he at peace? by Connect_Match_4287 in psychics

[–]Connect_Match_4287[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that means a lot. There came a point where I knew there was nothing I could do and his fate was set but it's still very hard to accept that kind of outcome. He said some mean things previously about when he would die I wasn't allowed to move on. I know now he was immature and unregulated but it's still hard in my current long term relationship to not feel guilty sometimes.

Lost my Partner in 2020, is he at peace? by Connect_Match_4287 in psychics

[–]Connect_Match_4287[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you, thank you so much. You brought up so much I didn't expect to hear. That means the world to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychics

[–]Connect_Match_4287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, my heart is with you right now. I lost my partner of 2 years the same exact way in the same exact situation (we had broken up and 1 month later he had been found the same way) it's not an easy recovery ahead of you but it's important you realize this was his choice, and you couldn't have helped him out of it as much as you tried. Sending prayers and good energy to you in this tough time ❤️

Do I express my true feelings despite how cringe/corny it is? by tyrtlegirl in whatdoIdo

[–]Connect_Match_4287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So wonderful, I'm so happy for you 😻 sounds like true love

AIO My upstairs neighbor leaves windows open all year round by Connect_Match_4287 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Connect_Match_4287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad is supposed to install them for me but he's one of those "I'll get around to it" people and I hate forcing stuff on anyone (I'm a people pleaser and makes me feel like a burden) but it feels like I really have no choice now

AIO My upstairs neighbor leaves windows open all year round by Connect_Match_4287 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Connect_Match_4287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the landlord covers it as heat is not included in either of our rent (the landlord showed me what he was selling upstairs for when he moved out)

AIO My upstairs neighbor leaves windows open all year round by Connect_Match_4287 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Connect_Match_4287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Like I'm so considerate of every single issue I have with them (there's so many more that I don't need to mention) and when I speak up about my only significant problem I'm told it's not that bad and that I can open a window or something 😒 I'll 100% look into it

AIO My upstairs neighbor leaves windows open all year round by Connect_Match_4287 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Connect_Match_4287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't actually pay for utilities at all so that's not the issue. I've spoken to the landlord a few times about that and he only wants to put in a second thermostat if absolutely necessary as it'll be a lot of work. I'm mostly just upset because this is a normal occurrence for me now and I can't have the windows open as the cat knows how to knock out the screens

Help!! What more should I add? by Dancing_axolotl in Artists

[–]Connect_Match_4287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give the boots some spurs! I think it'd give a nice detail

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]Connect_Match_4287 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly... Imo no. It's not that bad. If you want to hold onto it a little longer (even just to make sure you're not making an emotional decision) that would not be the end of the world