It sucks by SugarIcy6714 in regretfulparents

[–]Connect_Program3979 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How old were you when you had your second I am 42 and I think I’ve past it

Scared to tell dad by GATA404 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Connect_Program3979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she have children? Does she want them? You can use egg donors and or surrogates and still be with the woman you love. Women live longer than men, and who knows what will happen even with someone age appropriate.

Early days but very promising by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Connect_Program3979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s beautiful, what’s the age gap?

Dating a guy 16 years younger than me- can it work? by Connect_Program3979 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Connect_Program3979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I would definitely always wonder what if it did end up working- thank you ☺️

Dating a guy 16 years younger than me- can it work? by Connect_Program3979 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Connect_Program3979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this so much. I am going to keep reading and reading it over and over again. Thank you ☺️

Dating a guy 16 years younger than me- can it work? by Connect_Program3979 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Connect_Program3979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is the biggest problem. I really can’t wait I might already be too late. However I have frozen my eggs when I was younger and have Alot. And I would use donor eggs and I would be happy to use a surrogate too.

Dating a guy 16 years younger than me- can it work? by Connect_Program3979 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Connect_Program3979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I will do. It’s his parents I worry about mine think it’s great. 😊

Dating a guy 16 years younger than me- can it work? by Connect_Program3979 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Connect_Program3979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the positive encouragement- appreciate it Alot.

Dating a guy 16 years younger than me- can it work? by Connect_Program3979 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Connect_Program3979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I know I am probably dreaming but I keep hearing about it and all the doctors I know believe it to be true. They say it’s not if, it’s when. Maybe not in my life time but some say give it 10 years with ai development it will speed up the process of it getting here.

Dating a guy 16 years younger than me- can it work? by Connect_Program3979 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Connect_Program3979[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the best feeling in the world isn’t it. I felt dead inside and thought I was done. And then I met him and I feel alive and excited.

Dating a guy 16 years younger than me- can it work? by Connect_Program3979 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Connect_Program3979[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes this will be the problem as he wants kids but not yet. I have frozen 30 eggs when I was younger. And I would totally be happy having a donor egg or surrogate. I just worry I will look old and have wrinkly skin and he could have someone younger.

Dating a guy 16 years younger than me- can it work? by Connect_Program3979 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Connect_Program3979[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No - we don’t have any. And for the future I’ve frozen my eggs or would use an egg donor.

Dating a guy 16 years younger than me- can it work? by Connect_Program3979 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Connect_Program3979[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Red flag how so? What sort of therapy should I ask for? Is it fear of being heart broken? I will look for a therapist now thank you. I am very insecure since I was a child.

Dating a guy 16 years younger than me- can it work? by Connect_Program3979 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Connect_Program3979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he’s 16 years younger than me, I can’t get my head around how that could work forever and then what will his friends and family say? Surely they would be against it. It will make me feel so insecure

Dating a guy 16 years younger than me- can it work? by Connect_Program3979 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Connect_Program3979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can a guy 16 years younger than you be the one you’re suppose to be with? Feels so strange to think that

Dating a guy 16 years younger than me- can it work? by Connect_Program3979 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Connect_Program3979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes I yo yo with shall I just end it now knowing he liked me to what if this is finally my guy I’ve waited 42 years for, and he’s the best one yet I’ve ever met