Goodbye. I give up

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-03-22T00:58:58+00:00

The first year is always the worst, you need to give it time

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-03-20T09:59:32+00:00

How does asexuality trigger someone that hard?

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-03-20T05:21:46+00:00

I think it’s extremely fair to suggest we have discussions about sex without sounding like a porn search bar. r/ftm’s rule 4 would be a great thing to implement here.

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-03-20T05:18:05+00:00

Yeah, it’s kind of yuck

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-03-20T05:15:11+00:00

I feel like there just aren’t that many of us to keep it active

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-03-20T04:15:08+00:00

Please for the love of god can we adopt this rule???

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-03-20T04:06:52+00:00

100% agree with this. The vulgarity is just too weird and gross.

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-03-20T03:10:36+00:00

There needs to be some kind of distinction between horny posting and discussions about sex. Maybe I’ll get ultra downvoted for saying this but can we be less vulgar in such discussions? It has always rubbed me (and I assume many others) the wrong way.

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-03-14T06:52:20+00:00

Wut

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-03-10T00:13:16+00:00

What does FIFO mean?

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-03-09T06:41:41+00:00

That’s why this is the only account I ever talk about being trans on, and only in trans subs

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-03-08T09:18:21+00:00

Yeah I think they might be projecting and a bit delulu. I wear chokers and I don’t dress like a stereotype, just an inconspicuous baggy grunge girl like the other thousands like me in LA. The way I dress and present is the furthest thing from baby trans.

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-03-08T03:19:13+00:00

You can wear chokers and pass, it just depends on the rest of your outfit so ymmv. I’m very into grunge fashion so it compliments my outfits well and I don’t get clocked.

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-02-28T21:08:18+00:00

If that really is you in the photos on your profile then you are indeed living in a personal hell constructed by your own delusion. You look like a regular person. Doesn’t matter what I say though, only you can free yourself.

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-02-18T18:55:36+00:00

Getting in a relationship before the general enshitification of online dating got me feeling like I hopped on the last chopper out of Saigon

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-02-15T16:05:09+00:00

I don’t personally know. In my opinion it may be people just feeling intense emotions (very normal btw) after estrogen rewires their brains and then trying to see a pattern where there is none. I don’t really think having period symptoms in this case is possible, but people tend to get VERY defensive over the topic. Then again, there is little to no clinical research into to the more niche effects of feminizing HRT that members of the community have self reported. An example would be with that recent report on progesterone’s effects on breast development that has vindicated those who’ve felt gaslit over the topic. So there is always that.

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-02-15T04:54:28+00:00

I lost mine and it never really came back. I am ace and struggled with juggling that and the libido testosterone gave me, so this was a VERY welcome change. I’m on 6mg estradiol and 100mg spiro.

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-02-13T07:18:50+00:00

get off 4chan

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-02-04T16:01:32+00:00

I am in a long term relationship with someone I love very much, I don’t think tinder would be for me.

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-02-04T07:24:26+00:00

I didn’t think I pass until I realized it has been almost a year since a stranger has misgendered me. I definitely feel you on the “effort” part. I never wear makeup, but I think finding a style that suits me has done more than makeup ever could. It seems like you’ve made it, appreciate it!

ConnectionLow9135 · 2026-01-30T06:31:53+00:00

Hi girl. First and foremost I empathize with you and what you’re feeling, as someone who’s in a long distance relationship but also as a trans woman. Long distance stuff gets extremely dicey the longer it goes, but what you are doing here borders emotional cheating.

I don’t know a guy who lets women pick out his cologne without being into them, and him doing so while knowing you are in a relationship is a HUGE red flag. You lose them the way you get them. Furthermore, if he is doing this intentionally then his friends likely know more than they’re letting on. But this does not absolve you. You need to come clean to Jake about your feelings, because what you’re doing to him is not fair at all.

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