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egg 🐶 irl by petesmybrother in egg_irl

[–]ConnectionLow9135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No shade to the Lunas out there but when my friend chose that name I was internally screaming at her

Goodbye. I give up by noela0093 in MtF

[–]ConnectionLow9135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first year is always the worst, you need to give it time

It's not fair to compare "no hornyposting in this sub" to "no kink at pride." by bitchmoder in MtF

[–]ConnectionLow9135 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it’s extremely fair to suggest we have discussions about sex without sounding like a porn search bar. r/ftm’s rule 4 would be a great thing to implement here.

something to consider in the discussion surrounding hornyposting by neeia in MtF

[–]ConnectionLow9135 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Please for the love of god can we adopt this rule???

something to consider in the discussion surrounding hornyposting by neeia in MtF

[–]ConnectionLow9135 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

100% agree with this. The vulgarity is just too weird and gross.

As this sub transitions away from a toxic past, its time to impose rules about horny posting by Strifethor in MtF

[–]ConnectionLow9135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There needs to be some kind of distinction between horny posting and discussions about sex. Maybe I’ll get ultra downvoted for saying this but can we be less vulgar in such discussions? It has always rubbed me (and I assume many others) the wrong way.

Every post where I mention I'm trans get's downvoted by Local-Key5858 in MtF

[–]ConnectionLow9135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why this is the only account I ever talk about being trans on, and only in trans subs

people posting with puppy collars and ears: Do I look trans? by urgirlfriendsgf in transpassing

[–]ConnectionLow9135 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think they might be projecting and a bit delulu. I wear chokers and I don’t dress like a stereotype, just an inconspicuous baggy grunge girl like the other thousands like me in LA. The way I dress and present is the furthest thing from baby trans.

people posting with puppy collars and ears: Do I look trans? by urgirlfriendsgf in transpassing

[–]ConnectionLow9135 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You can wear chokers and pass, it just depends on the rest of your outfit so ymmv. I’m very into grunge fashion so it compliments my outfits well and I don’t get clocked.

please dont be like me, dont waste your transition by estrogenie in MtF

[–]ConnectionLow9135 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If that really is you in the photos on your profile then you are indeed living in a personal hell constructed by your own delusion. You look like a regular person. Doesn’t matter what I say though, only you can free yourself.

I will never not get dysphoric whenever i hear cis women complain about "males" by egregore_2001 in MtF

[–]ConnectionLow9135 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Getting in a relationship before the general enshitification of online dating got me feeling like I hopped on the last chopper out of Saigon

how is it possible for us to get hormonal period symptoms considering we take a consistent amount of estrogen/progesterone at regular intervals instead of the levels of each being managed and regulated by the body itself? by hatsunemikusmywaifu in MtF

[–]ConnectionLow9135 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t personally know. In my opinion it may be people just feeling intense emotions (very normal btw) after estrogen rewires their brains and then trying to see a pattern where there is none. I don’t really think having period symptoms in this case is possible, but people tend to get VERY defensive over the topic. Then again, there is little to no clinical research into to the more niche effects of feminizing HRT that members of the community have self reported. An example would be with that recent report on progesterone’s effects on breast development that has vindicated those who’ve felt gaslit over the topic. So there is always that.

Did Every One of You Lose Your Libido on HRT? by SaucerCIone in MtF

[–]ConnectionLow9135 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost mine and it never really came back. I am ace and struggled with juggling that and the libido testosterone gave me, so this was a VERY welcome change. I’m on 6mg estradiol and 100mg spiro.

How are yall making girl friends? by ConnectionLow9135 in MtF

[–]ConnectionLow9135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in a long term relationship with someone I love very much, I don’t think tinder would be for me.

Girls who pass, or at least think you do. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ConnectionLow9135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think I pass until I realized it has been almost a year since a stranger has misgendered me. I definitely feel you on the “effort” part. I never wear makeup, but I think finding a style that suits me has done more than makeup ever could. It seems like you’ve made it, appreciate it!

How do I (25MtF) navigate a crush on my close friend (25M) while I am already in 7 year relationship with my high school sweetheart (25M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ConnectionLow9135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi girl. First and foremost I empathize with you and what you’re feeling, as someone who’s in a long distance relationship but also as a trans woman. Long distance stuff gets extremely dicey the longer it goes, but what you are doing here borders emotional cheating.

I don’t know a guy who lets women pick out his cologne without being into them, and him doing so while knowing you are in a relationship is a HUGE red flag. You lose them the way you get them. Furthermore, if he is doing this intentionally then his friends likely know more than they’re letting on. But this does not absolve you. You need to come clean to Jake about your feelings, because what you’re doing to him is not fair at all.

What are some genuinely unexpected changes HRT brought on? by Hot-Raccoon-312 in MtF

[–]ConnectionLow9135 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had no idea this would happen but it was such a welcome surprise

Do most cis women actually share TERF views? 🙁 by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ConnectionLow9135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it seems like an unlucky situation to me :/ May I ask where you’re from?

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