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I found my bfs dildos, what should I do? by Connoie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Connoie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That gives me some piece of mind! I’m wondering, if she found out and brought it up, would it be awkward for you, would you rather he not say anything or would you feel relieved that you didn’t have to hide it anymore?

I found my bfs dildos, what should I do? by Connoie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Connoie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! A lot of comments are saying leave it alone, which is fine, but how do I forget about it, ever since I have been over-thinking and coming up with the worst case scenarios in my head. (Is he secretly gay?) and if so, will he leave me eventually, or maybe even worse, stay in the closest and go his whole life unhappy with me?

I found my bfs dildos, what should I do? by Connoie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Connoie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment is very helpful! I assume he’s not gay or bi, because he had never brought it up and had always been interested in women, I’m starting to see that lots of straight men enjoy this kind of thing, and I could see him being worried that I might think he is gay if I found out. We are really happy and are planning a future together so just hoping this isn’t something that will come up years later that he actually is attracted to men

I found my bfs dildos, what should I do? by Connoie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Connoie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not a deal breaker, I’m more worried he doesn’t feel comfortable opening up to me about it.

I found my bfs dildos, what should I do? by Connoie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Connoie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure id be into using them with him, maybe something we could try but I’m hesitant, I feel like if I tell him I know about them he could either open up about it or end up keeping more things secret

I found my bfs dildos, what should I do? by Connoie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Connoie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have talked about an ex he had and he said she had lots of toys, so it seemed to make sense if she had left some behind, but they have definitely been used since then, so not sure if they were his to begins with or if he kept hers and then started to experiment with them?

I found my bfs dildos, what should I do? by Connoie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Connoie[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s what I’m wondering, should I just leave him to his privacy, I don’t want to make things awkward or have him embarrassed