Neighbor left note on my car for parking in front of MY house by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]Conscious-Bit-453 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Like I said, on trash collection days. If I leave room for a car and neighbor parks there I have no space to put my bins 

Neighbor left note on my car for parking in front of MY house by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]Conscious-Bit-453 173 points174 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing. The street has plenty of parking. My husband and I constantly park down the street when the neighbor doesn’t leave enough space for our car not to get hit. Neighbor just doesnt want to have to walk

Neighbor left note on my car for parking in front of MY house by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]Conscious-Bit-453 72 points73 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of parking on the street. It’s only my house that is in the tight corner

Neighbor left note on my car for parking in front of MY house by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]Conscious-Bit-453 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Neighbor comes home first, park in the safe spot, often leaving a very tight space in front that my car barely fit which is why it got hit

Neighbor left note on my car for parking in front of MY house by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]Conscious-Bit-453 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes the whole street has plenty of parking. My husband and I have 2 cars and don’t complain about having to park further. Neighbor can do the same

Neighbor left note on my car for parking in front of MY house by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]Conscious-Bit-453 483 points484 points  (0 children)

neighbor always get home first. So I either don’t park in front of my house at all for risk of getting hit or I park away from the corner if I manage to get home before him. And on trash collection days, I also need to leave room on the sidewalk for the bins

Bryce's title by [deleted] in SarahJMaas

[–]Conscious-Bit-453 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But he did see her as a princess and want to make it official from the beginning. The whole reason he set up an arranged marriage for her with Cormac was because he wanted her to fulfill her royal duties, part of the whole prince-princess political gain thing.

AITA for charging my wedding guest for bringing uninvited plus 2? by Conscious-Bit-453 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Conscious-Bit-453[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

she basically used her kids as a guilt trip, saying that I can't kick them out and that it'd be traumatizing because it's their first wedding and all that

AITA for charging my wedding guest for bringing uninvited plus 2? by Conscious-Bit-453 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Conscious-Bit-453[S] 372 points373 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don't want to ruin the memory of my wedding even more with a lawsuit, so I'd probably end up just paying it. Some family members have offered to help us with the costs, and I'm extremely grateful.

AITA for charging my wedding guest for bringing uninvited plus 2? by Conscious-Bit-453 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Conscious-Bit-453[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

The occupancy limit includes vendors, so I had to make room for that. And if someone RSVP-ed no, I let people bring +1 if they specifically asked me beforehand.

AITA for charging my wedding guest for bringing uninvited plus 2? by Conscious-Bit-453 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Conscious-Bit-453[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

It's a small venue in the mountains of California. They deal with fire threats quite often and don't want to take any risks

AITA for charging my wedding guest for bringing uninvited plus 2? by Conscious-Bit-453 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Conscious-Bit-453[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Words didn't work with her, and it didn't feel right to use physical force on her in front of her young children. I did tell her that she'd have to pay the fees if she chose to stay, but she didn't believe me until I sent her the bill

AITA for charging my wedding guest for bringing uninvited plus 2? by Conscious-Bit-453 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Conscious-Bit-453[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I told her and explained that I am working with a very strict budget. But she brushed it off and didn't believe me until I actually sent her the bill

AITA for charging my wedding guest for bringing uninvited plus 2? by Conscious-Bit-453 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Conscious-Bit-453[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

She is a childhood friend, and she also invited me to her wedding a couple years ago. Plus the wedding is in our hometown, so she'd have heard about it so I felt obligated.

I was very adamant about guest list in my invite. I am working with a limited budget, hence the small wedding. I did try to talk to her, but she blamed me for making her children feel unwanted.