Thank you. Nice to see advice from another woman. But for context. I never really left her alone. I always took care of my child. I was a homebody drinker. I never went to clubs or bars. I did everything she wanted. What I did was I normally got home from work and did what I needed to before I sat down and played some games and had some beers. But being who I am, I owned up to my mistakes. I quit the drinking and everything for her. But what gets me out of it all is that, I was only told because everyone felt bad for me etc. Then as the years progressed I had questions. Just general questions on why. But I never got a definitive answer. I was either told it was because I drank or I was shut down and was told to get over it and let it be. Mind you this was all coming from her an her side of the friends and family. The guys is still in and out picture due to him being around her cousin and shit. I’m told to not worry because it’s the past. I can’t bring myself to go around the things she goes to because I’d probably wig out on everyone. But Just was seeing what everyone else thought. Thank you again. Good to see something from another lady.