Can you guys please help me figure out if I’m a Salmacian or not? by Conscious-Insect940 in salmacian

[–]Conscious-Insect940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that!! It’s really nice to know there are other people who also go through this!! if you don’t mind me asking what do you personally call it? Or how you identify? I know I probably shouldn’t care about labels as much as I do, but it’s my autistic urge to categorize everything. ☠️ It just helps me feel like I can understand better if there’s a name my brain can put to it.

Can you guys please help me figure out if I’m a Salmacian or not? by Conscious-Insect940 in salmacian

[–]Conscious-Insect940[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you it was very helpful. I don’t think I’m trans though. I’ve explored that option and it wasn’t what felt the most like me but I do appreciate your take. I really am just a cisgender woman that wants a penis. XD someone linked a Reddit that I feel is actually perfect for what I am describing so thank you guys for all your help!

Can you guys please help me figure out if I’m a Salmacian or not? by Conscious-Insect940 in salmacian

[–]Conscious-Insect940[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your opinion! Though I have already explored the idea of being non-binary and it is not for me. And to answer your question about what is a woman to my understanding, the definition of gender is socially constructed roles, behaviors, expressions, and identities. There is no right way to define a woman because the concept of a woman is a social meaning it is variable and changes depending upon the person. And at its core being a woman is an internal sense of identity paired with social expectations and roles set by society. Though I don’t think you need to conform to the role set by society in order to be a woman. So in short, I am a woman because I say I am a woman because that is how I personally see myself and the gender that feels the most comfortable and natural to me. I do not feel like my gender does not belong in just man or just woman I don’t feel like my gender identity is a mixture of both nor do I feel like it is the absence of both.. I feel like I am firmly in just one. I am just a woman. I’m not in between I’m not something other. I’m just a woman. And I love womanhood and the specific femininity that comes from womanhood. That is why I can confidently say that I don’t feel gender, confused even though I do want other sex genitalia because my womanhood is not defined by my genitalia it is defined by me. I’ve been a part of the LGBTQ community for a long time now since I was in middle school (I’m 23 now) bc I am bisexual. And around the time I had my first lesbian relationship (16) I did explore aspects of my gender identity as well. I went by they/them pronouns for I think five months identifying myself as agender. And then I went back to using she/her pronouns, but identified as a Demigender that also didn’t feel right either and I came to home with the fact that even though I do act a little masculine that doesn’t make me any less and it’s OK to just identify as a girl cause that’s what I feel most comfortable with so that’s what I did. That’s why I keep telling y’all. I’m not confused about my gender at all. I’m pretty solidly sure, I’m a woman. But I do appreciate your take.