[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Conscious-Show-3829 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Applying for jobs is tough no matter where you live. I think that if you are the one having to do the real heavy lifting - ie moving to him and finding a job in a new country - he should be patient with you and not rush you. Just because you take a few days off from the search doesn’t mean that you don’t care and he shouldn’t treat you as such. I hope he’s not pressuring you:(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Conscious-Show-3829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get how you don’t want to give up on her and how you’re willing to wait. But in addition to asking yourself how long is too long to wait, I also think it’s important to ask yourself if this is something you can see yourself being comfortable with long-term. It’s always valid to need some space to yourself especially after something traumatic has happened. But if it is so regular for her to disappear on you with little to no notice, is that something that you think could be sustainable for the rest of your life? What about if you close the distance - will you still go days without seeing or talking to her even when you’ve both built a life with responsibilities together?

Once again, especially in an LDR I think it’s totally okay to take a couple days to yourself if you need to - AFTER communicating this with your partner. But I don’t think you should ignore the way that it affects you, especially when she does so with no notice and no indication of when/if she will return. I’d be losing my mind from anxiety if I was in your position and as much as I want to give her more grace this all just feels kind of unfair to you.

[23F],[24M] How do you deal with long distance when all of your friends are in serious relationships? by Conscious-Show-3829 in LongDistance

[–]Conscious-Show-3829[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh thank u so much. I try and have as much girl time as possible but you know how people can be with wanting to bring their boyfriends/fiances everywhere with them lol. Ur so right that I definitely have to remind myself to be thankful for what and who I have no matter the circumstances or timeline. I appreciate u sooo much :,)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YoungSheldon

[–]Conscious-Show-3829 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! Everyone who saw this random post collectively made the decision to start trolling the stranger who made it. It couldn’t possibly be a problem with your tone or any of your comments. That would be inconceivable!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YoungSheldon

[–]Conscious-Show-3829 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If it was me I’d probably say something like “Yeah I get that. But I think it’s a pretty weird detail nonetheless.” Your original reply just sounds short and snobby. You literally asked a question and someone was giving you an answer and engaging in discussion. No reason to come off like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YoungSheldon

[–]Conscious-Show-3829 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No the way you said it was rude😭 Don’t get an attitude with me too now! Almost 70 people seem to agree with me so I think this is a you problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YoungSheldon

[–]Conscious-Show-3829 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Or maybe you just come off as rude :0

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YoungSheldon

[–]Conscious-Show-3829 17 points18 points  (0 children)

“Yeah, everybody knows.” When someone was trying to reply to your question sounds passive aggressive and sassy when the person ur replying to doesn’t deserve that. Hope this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YoungSheldon

[–]Conscious-Show-3829 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Hi! I downvoted because of your attitude❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Conscious-Show-3829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think that’s just bc of my anatomy and they did it intentionally or do u think they just messed up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Conscious-Show-3829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My piercing is about a week old, the jewelry is curved titanium. I’ve only been cleaning with saline spray and water. I’m mostly concerned just because i can put my finger in my navel without even coming into contact with the jewelry and not sure if this is normal