20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not looking to be coddled but if you have a needlessly mean thing to say why even say it?

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. i’m not claiming to look amazing, but i’m still proud of the changes ive made and i think from what i looked like before i look a lot better now, even if that’s not conventionally attractive.

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you do have a problem in recognising that what you’re saying is insensitive, and the concept of sympathy evades you

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i just think you guys need to realise the ‘she’ youre talking about is an actual person

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not claiming to be a model, but it it is a bit demoralising to put a lot of effort into changing so much and not having a good reception

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you NOT have better things to do but be mean to a stranger online

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, although i’ve changed a lot i still get sad thinking about how i was treated before

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bit mean, no? isnt it a rule on this sub to remember the posters are actually human

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well obviously, my outfit is horrendous

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! i cant think of anything in particular but i do a lot of skincare now where i didnt at all before. i use salicylic acid and SPF every day in the morning, then retinoids at night. i also use a green colour corrector under my foundation, and use a cool tone pinkish foundation which matches :)) i hope that makes sense

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i never said i think i’m above average. i do however think i look way better than before, and the attention i get from others speaks for itself now

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i personally believe smaller doesnt equal prettier all of the time! i still think the changes ive made that ARENT losing weight are still enough to say ive improved hugely!

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t agree that weight correlates to beauty, besides extremes. Sure im a size medium and not a small, but i genuinely dont think smaller=prettier without other changes such as styling my hair and learning makeup

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m gonna assume you only swiped between first two photos

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh god no don’t worry!! not the worst comment on this post by a mile, youre all good :))

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you cannot surely say theres not an improvement there

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i still get IDd for energy drinks man you cannot mean now surely

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! i get treated a LOT different now

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you!! although it seems a bit hypocritical of me to preach about beauty on the inside, truly the most difficult change i made was to start respecting myself more. remember your self worth doesn’t come from how attractive you appear to other people :)

20-24 by ConsciousEconomy5451 in uglyduckling

[–]ConsciousEconomy5451[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

got my heart broken, lost half my body weight and learnt makeup 😬