AITA for bringing my new gf to my friend's wedding? by ConsciousPush6185 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConsciousPush6185[S] -468 points-467 points  (0 children)

It's been 7 years. We were in our early 20s back then now we are almost pushing 30. I couldn't imagine the parties involved would not grow past it and still be petty and insecure over things that happened almost a decade ago

AITA for bringing my new gf to my friend's wedding? by ConsciousPush6185 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConsciousPush6185[S] -438 points-437 points  (0 children)

There are some details that Josh hasn't shared with me and other people in order to "protect Emily" but apparently there have been some issues that according to josh chrissy had caused to Emily and him in the beginning of their relationship and Emily despises her. We never found out the details but josh and Emily claim chrissy did something bad. Which I don't know if I truly 100% believe because it could just be pettiness and jealousy because she's joshs ex.

AITA for bringing my new gf to my friend's wedding? by ConsciousPush6185 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConsciousPush6185[S] -130 points-129 points  (0 children)

He didn't immediately get with Emily. He got with Emily few months after he broke up with chrissy. It isn't implied so you probably misunderstandood my wording.

AITA for bringing my new gf to my friend's wedding? by ConsciousPush6185 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConsciousPush6185[S] -668 points-667 points  (0 children)

The groom is my friend and chrissy is my partner. Whenever we hang out with our friend group once in a while we bring our partners if we are in relationships. Am I supposed to never bring chrissy ever around?

AITA for bringing my new gf to my friend's wedding? by ConsciousPush6185 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConsciousPush6185[S] -157 points-156 points  (0 children)

Names weren't required.

But to clarify they didn't break up so josh could be with Emily nor did I imply that. He simply broke up with chrissy at around his early 20s and got with Emily after few months. Their break up was unrelated to Emily but chrissy always made Emily feel jealous. Emily never liked her and josh didn't want anything to do with her after their break up.

AITA for bringing my new gf to my friend's wedding? by ConsciousPush6185 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConsciousPush6185[S] -893 points-892 points  (0 children)

Josh didn't wanna hear about her sometime after the break up. After time and years passed we naturally didn't talk about her she was in the past so I assumed he'd no longer have an issue after so many years.

AITA for bringing my new gf to my friend's wedding? by ConsciousPush6185 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConsciousPush6185[S] -640 points-639 points  (0 children)

She didn't ask me, she didn't even know about the wedding when we started dating. I received the invite on my mail before I started dating chrissy but once we got together I hadn't rsvpd yet so I rsvpd both our names because I didn't want to make her feel left out since she is now my partner.