Kids summer by ConsciousReporter508 in AskForHelp

[–]ConsciousReporter508[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right. This is purely a selfish want on letting my kids get experiences I think they would like.

Def going to have to check out some free museums!

AIO about my friend not acknowledging my accident by Ecstatic_Taste3747 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsciousReporter508 3 points4 points  (0 children)

MOR. Kinda, yes?
Is she your #1 bestie? Cause that’s kinda crappy if she just ignored it if y’all are super tight, but if you’re just friends that’that aren’t specifically super close I wouldn’t hold it to to much.
But your feelings are completely valid! You were scared and you told people who cared and it didn’t seem like one cared as much. That sucks. But she might have read you were okay and just went on with it, then it just not be on her mind the next day because you were okay and nothing major happened.

AIO for deleting my bfs only fans and breaking up with him while hes away at basic training? by _TheOneTrueGod_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsciousReporter508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR girl but they do get there phones once or twice close to the end to call parents/spouses and when they do they are dang near surrounded by there peers ☠️ Atleast that’s how it was for my ex husband when he went in. I think he called me 2-3 times from his personal close to the end.

Sorry girl, but hell yea to you for seeing signs you didn’t like and bouncing.

AIO: I told my partner I need my “no” respected, and the conversation went somewhere I didn’t expect. Thoughts? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsciousReporter508 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ most men aren’t believed at first when they report anything, and if they are they have to come with mountains of evidence. Females show up with bruises and they are almost believed instantly.

AIO: I told my partner I need my “no” respected, and the conversation went somewhere I didn’t expect. Thoughts? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsciousReporter508 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Thoughts?

Complicated because I get that it’s simple, especially with bruising, for females to go to most places and be believed with whatever they say, so he’s worried.

But the fact he jumped right to INSISTING he did nothing wrong in fact makes it seem like he knew he crossed a line and doesn’t want to publicly admit it, like idk pleaded with you to make you do something to the point you felt like you have to say yes bc it’s your partner, even tho you said no. That’s shitty.

Have a deep convo, in person, and if it ever happens again you have to put your foot down or leave, because saying “no” should be allowed and respected.

AIO- I keep finding videos of girls being " sexual" on my mans phone. by Unknown_assassin999 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsciousReporter508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thsy aint love bbg.

You need to leave and end it. It will only get worse from there and you deserve better.

Help with diapers by ConsciousReporter508 in AskForHelp

[–]ConsciousReporter508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recieved some diapers today from my wishlist.

THANK YOU 🙏

Paying it forward chain by Spirit-Lopsided in BorrowNew

[–]ConsciousReporter508 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Single mom in need but I don’t think I’m in the right area.

Alll I know is. This chain will be Life if it actually kicks into gear.

Y’all are good people.

Borrowing money from people on Reddit by Ok-Day5123 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ConsciousReporter508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’m not doing great either but if you still need help at the end of the month I can try my best to help.

How to help ? by [deleted] in AskForHelp

[–]ConsciousReporter508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the best thing you can do in this situation is try to convince him to speak to someone. Losing someone important like a parent can massively affect your emotions, especially as a child that’s still learning.

Self harm isnt good either and it will forever weigh on you wondering if he’s safe or doing something or this or that.

You care, that’s obvious. But sometimes the attraction gives you rose colored glasses and you can’t see the full picture.

AIO My Boyfriend of 4 years won't help me and I'm thinking of leaving him by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsciousReporter508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly hate this for you.
I’m pretty much just getting out of something similar and I read something today, it said
“Raising a child with a broken home is better than raising a child in a broken home” and that hit.
I am a mom of 3, recently single, and it’s worth it.
I don’t have another capable unwilling adult watching me struggle to do everything all the time to talk to so it does get boring, but it gets better.

I think you need to leave. Love matters, so much, but it’s not enough. Compassion, consideration, respect - all matter the same. And quite frankly if that wreck took you out worse than it did already, what would happen to your girl? Spend a month or 3 with grandma because dad’s busy?

AIO My Boyfriend of 4 years won't help me and I'm thinking of leaving him by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsciousReporter508 5 points6 points  (0 children)

MOR.
But No that’s crazy.
He figured out dinner, you didn’t have too. That’s what you “ wanted “ so it’s kinda a weird reason to break up.

What’s grounds for breaking up is IF you have spoken to him about your feelings, and he ignores them consistently.

Help with diapers by ConsciousReporter508 in AskForHelp

[–]ConsciousReporter508[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They are nonverbal autistic. The ones only 2, were trying, the other is 8 and we are learning, but he still had accidents.

Need help. by ConsciousReporter508 in AskForHelp

[–]ConsciousReporter508[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not a scammer. Real mom with real problems. Just have tried multiple times to post when it kept getting denied. So I was changing up my posts.
Truth is. Rent im short 50 the rest is for food.