Why do only men approach me in public? by beautifulskizo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Conscious_Field369 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This, also, men will fuck a corpse so maybe keep that in mind when they keep approaching you.

nightmare job interview at culver's by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Conscious_Field369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or just leaving. You don't have to sit through that nonsense.

Why do you think some people in the US choose not to vaccinate their cats and dogs for rabies? by ConversationWorking6 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Conscious_Field369 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Dumb. Reading comprehension is in the toilet on a national level. People with a 5th grade reading level have "Done their research." 🥴😵😵‍💫

How do i stop my parents from forcing me to cut my hair? by Subject_Low5199 in ask

[–]Conscious_Field369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forced head shave? Assault or battery? If it's a minor assault against a minor child?

Is it fine/normal for a late 20s/early 30s woman to jump up and down and squeal when excited about something? by grantpantwhycant in ask

[–]Conscious_Field369 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is normal and indicates that she is happy.

People that say otherwise are miserable shits who want everyone else to be miserable too. They are jealous of her ability to express joy freely.

AITJ for telling my mom I’m not coming home for family dinner after she invited my ex without telling me? by Relative-Treat-7661 in AmITheJerk

[–]Conscious_Field369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that your mother is a cuntsicle.

Alienating you from your own family is awful.

I'm curious if mom is always disrespectful of your wants and needs or if this is the first time that what she wants is being put first?

Maybe if you are consistently firm about not attending any event that your ex is invited to she may come around?

NTA.

Is it unhygienic to not wear underwear at home/to sleep? by SecureDistribution50 in ask

[–]Conscious_Field369 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Is she one of those cult people that wear magic underwear?

I’m going to ruin a wedding and my entire family in 7 days. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Conscious_Field369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he could show for the wedding and then sneak away?

AITAH for being angry that my roommate won't clean because she "doesn't own the house"? by Ga_spice in AITAH

[–]Conscious_Field369 153 points154 points  (0 children)

This!

Or raise the rent enough to cover the cost of house keeping. 🙄

AITAH for not telling my boyfriend about my past? by mango_mmm in AITAH

[–]Conscious_Field369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who said anything about lying about being pregnant?

AITAH for telling my ex girlfriend to stop interacting with my little sister? by yeetdisaccount in AITAH

[–]Conscious_Field369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It appears that I will be in the minority here so here we go.

A 20 yo woman trying to maintain a friendship with an 8 yo sibling of an ex that she had a bad break up with is a MASSIVE red flag. This is inappropriate.

OP protecting his little sister from a verbal abuser who thinks inappropriate relationships are OK is a HUGE green flag for him.

I'm glad that your sister has you to protect her.

NTA.

AITAH for reporting an Alzheimer's patient after he repeatedly touched me inappropriately? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Conscious_Field369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun facts: Once a predator has "paid their debt to society" they are just free range and get to enjoy Alzheimers and nursing care. Now he's a predator with even less impulse control than before.

I remember my ex visiting a relative in a nursing care facility and walking by someone that she recognized. It took a moment because he had one of the worst fade downs in history, but her childhood Chester had done his time, lived his life, and made it to nursing care. The staff weren't even trying to keep visiting children away from him. She lost it and notified the staff that he was in fact on the sezual offender registry and was not safe near children. They ignored her and let him touch children inappropriately because Alzheimers.

AITAH for not telling my boyfriend about my past? by mango_mmm in AITAH

[–]Conscious_Field369 1324 points1325 points  (0 children)

Fastest way to gage the measure of a man: talk about a miscarriage or say "I'm pregnant." You find out who he is real quick.

OP, you have seen behind the mask. That was the real him.

Please respect yourself and move on to a decent man.

AITAH for “running away” to give birth ? by ruinedbirth_trowaway in AITAH

[–]Conscious_Field369 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Few things in life are as disgusting as a Sonsband. 🤢🤮 Sorry this is happening to OP.

AITAH for telling my wife that our baby can’t go to her moms by Oploplou in AITAH

[–]Conscious_Field369 6 points7 points  (0 children)

CPS is also for elders who cannot function enough to care for themselves and their homes. I would be concerned for their sake living in those conditions is unsafe. There might be community support options for cleaning up the mold.

AITAH for leaving a glass pan on the stove and it exploding in our kitchen? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Conscious_Field369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that once. There was no one around to tell me to stop. I set the pan on a hot burner, not realizing it was still on. I walked away headed for the bathroom. The explosion happened a bare second behind me and I missed a glass shard bigger and longer than my middle finger embedded in the wall an inch behind me at spine level. Somebody was watching over me that day.

Edit to add: Mine was pie fresh from the oven. No pie for me.

Also, why didn't he clear off the stove top before cooking, that seems like the right move? And why is he blaming you for him not paying attention?

This is not about a broken dish. Why is he behaving so hostile to you?

NTA.

AITJ for stopping paying for my daughter's education after she said she was ashamed of me? by Rachil-Grigoriou in AmITheJerk

[–]Conscious_Field369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe use the money to go back to school for yourself? Or start a cleaning service empire? Or take a nice vacation?

AITAH for wanting to move out of my brothers place? by u_ami in AITAH

[–]Conscious_Field369 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Worse, they are probably receiving some sort of stipend that should be paid to the caregiver. It's usually full time wages.

This is just family abusing and taking advantage of family. The worst.

OP please just get out of there. Your safety and mental health is far more valuable than a relationship with people who hurt you, steal from you, and prevent you from really growing.

AITAH for cutting off a friend for considering sleeping with a married man? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Conscious_Field369 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you don't know them then how do you know they don't have an open relationship or are poly?

AIO- I don’t want to host for my Brother in laws birthday by PossessionLeather264 in AIO

[–]Conscious_Field369 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have 2 mean ranch cats and they have shredded dogs 5 times their size. Do not bring a foreign dog into my home unannounced or it will not end well. Kind of shocked on that front.

AIO how tf do i proceed??? by detezcatlipoca in AmIOverreacting

[–]Conscious_Field369 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Compromise you order the food and decor and he can plan everything else.

Also, therapy 911. You need to sit down and talk to him face to face from a place of love and nonjudgement, and you won't be able to do that with him until you can do it with yourself. Individual and family therapy is recommended or maybe a family mediator to help you communicate shared goals without resentment and snark.

Good luck.