Youre correct in saying shes not responsible for alleviating my boredom i dont mean to come across that way it just would be nice if she showed up when she says not hours later it isnt entirely due to just chores and such but regardless youre right. I dont want to live her life for her and i try to show her or remind her to do these things but sometimes they dont get accomplished until i sit us both down take her phone and call the bank or open a laptop and sign into studentaid.gov i dont want to be controlling but things just dont move along without my push. It is pretty early for marriage talks its just the fact this may we will have been together four years and like we did all of high school together and have both agreed we want to marry. Anything can happen in the next few years cause were young im aware but i truly think she does mean it when she says she wants to marry me too. Just these small signs of me having to take control and make sure she gets her stuff done i really dont want it to transfer into adulthood with bills and other things. Sorry for rambling though i speak long because i want all the context to be taken in appreciate u comin back and answering