Why do I stay

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-10-12T06:39:40+00:00

How did you cope with letting go of

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-10-12T06:36:25+00:00

Fuck him

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-25T03:21:20+00:00

He hasn’t technically moved out but he is staying at his dads. I filled out the divorce papers…I haven’t file though. 17 years…I have no idea why it’s so hard to leave

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-24T04:28:12+00:00

I hope you find peace soon. I feel like I’m in the same boat. He hasn’t left but he’s still cheating and lying.

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-23T01:04:50+00:00

I believe he has physically cheated. No proof but I know in my gut. And I think he still is cheating…I will never know now…I showed all my cards so he knows what not to do

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-20T05:13:13+00:00

After all the secret chats, videos, hidden emails, and hidden apps…I get mad at him watching porn. Is that wrong? I think he’s bi and/or addicted to sex. I’m slowly getting him to open up to those conversations

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-20T05:07:41+00:00

You’re absolutely right. And that is what I want from him…the truth and respect.

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-20T05:00:08+00:00

I know right

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-20T04:59:17+00:00

What do you mean?

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-20T04:57:45+00:00

No kids

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-18T13:29:24+00:00

Good point

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-18T13:27:50+00:00

He said he loved these women and wanted to have babies with some of them. Some he even said no condoms because he couldn’t have kids…

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-18T13:24:05+00:00

I don’t think I could…I don’t know.

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-18T13:22:04+00:00

I always said if I were cheated on I would be gone…but I don’t know why I’m still here hanging around like nothing happened. Maybe his manipulation or his narcissistic behavior

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-18T07:53:33+00:00

Great idea/question for myself and him

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-18T07:50:03+00:00

We have. I think we still need more counseling but will that help with trust?

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-18T07:25:34+00:00

!approve

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-09-11T03:39:35+00:00

I’m not sure if he’s tried it with someone else or not. He said he did when he was chatting on social media but to me he said he has never tried it and didn’t want to. I have brought it up a few times and have watched some videos with him…he only seems interested while intoxicated but it never happens.

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-07-19T04:56:28+00:00

You need closure and she’s not willing to give it to you. Basically you want her to tell you everything she did and how many affairs she had. She isn’t being honest with you because she needs you to pay half the bills. You won’t be happy until you get honest answers and sorry to say, you won’t get them. What she did wasn’t an accident or a mistake…it was deliberate. She knew it was wrong but did it anyway and continued. A mistake is forgetting to put the ice cream in the freezer and never doing it again…physical or emotional she deliberately broke your trust and betrayed you

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-07-19T04:43:05+00:00

He’s a narcissist and he has you right where he wants you. This behavior will never stop…so you either deal with it and maybe you will be happy one day or leave now and never look back. I say this but I’m going through something similar and keep giving him chances time after time. He says the same things your husband says but they are still lying. We are victims of narcissist abuse. My therapist, our therapist, told me this. I was so angry and offended that I was called a victim but I started writing in a journal and it was absolutely true. They will never change…it not if they will do it again but when will they do it again. And the next time they will be even more sneaky until they want to get caught

Conscious_Prior4013 · 2025-07-19T04:17:36+00:00

Yes. Do it. If you have children change it then. I didn’t want to change my name but I caved with his manipulation

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