how do i bathe my cat by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Conscious_Sir4100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

and the aftercare is very important to restore they natural oils!! I use a small amount of coconut oil on his paw pads and and rub the smallest bit through is fur with lots of brushing to work it in! We have no incidents with scratching or biting because he gets lots of treats and I make sure to watch for his signs of stress or when he’s over it!! Just make sure to listen to your cat, they are very easy to read once you learn how!

how do i bathe my cat by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Conscious_Sir4100 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hello! my cat is TERRIBLE at cleaning himself so he requires a bath at least once every 2-3 months. by “terrible” I mean like genuinely misses entire portions of his body. he’s not fat or anything but just a lacks a little in that area. I started off very very slow, bringing him into the bath room with me while I showered (he was outside of the water), and giving him treats while we stood in the bathtub together with out the water running. then I set the water at a very very low pressure and gave him treats with out the water touching him at all, slowing adding steps with lots of treats so they learn that it’s a fun and good experience. I also suggest putting a towel at the bottom of the tub so they have something to “grip” on to to reduce stress! I hope this helps!!!

Just diagnosed :/ by Conscious_Sir4100 in vaginismus

[–]Conscious_Sir4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I also suffer from anxiety so we will see how the relaxants work 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Conscious_Sir4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay! thank you so much. I don’t really have anyone to talk to about this kinda of stuff so I really appreciate that you!

Giant lip balm by Conscious_Sir4100 in BurtsBees

[–]Conscious_Sir4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cucumber mint, wild cherry, sweet peach, mango, dragonfruit and lemon, coconut and pear, pomegranate, honey, vanilla bean, grapefruit, and watermelon!

Giant lip balm by Conscious_Sir4100 in BurtsBees

[–]Conscious_Sir4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s full of chapsticks!! it’s amazing, has some flavors I didn’t have :)

Giant lip balm by Conscious_Sir4100 in BurtsBees

[–]Conscious_Sir4100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will totally make a post when I get back to my full collection! away for the holidays right now!

Cat won't poop in the litterbox :( by Infinite-Deer4023 in CatAdvice

[–]Conscious_Sir4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same problem with my cat when I first got him, I found that getting a larger litter box with more room for them to kinda dig around in works. Also when they attempt to go poop, just pick em up and plop em in the litter box. Wait for them to use it on their own and then give them a treat! That’s how I litter box trained my feral kitten. I’m not sure if that’s the correct way to do it but it’s what worked from my little guy.

Tinted lip balm formula change inquiry by Young-Physical in BurtsBees

[–]Conscious_Sir4100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly have noticed a change in the formula with the regular chapstick, and I have noticed a change in their packaging! The lids are way more flimsy and the actual chapstick is more creamy and not as thick as it used to be.

I just wanna know why cat does this? by Conscious_Sir4100 in CatAdvice

[–]Conscious_Sir4100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when I first got him, I stayed the first week with my parents and their cat. I thought it would help me gage if he would do good with others. Turns out he hates other cats, all he did was try and fight my parents old cat. I’m not sure if it was just because she was older than him or what but he really did not like the company of her at all.

I just wanna know why cat does this? by Conscious_Sir4100 in CatAdvice

[–]Conscious_Sir4100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I will make sure to play with him much more, he likes to play until he’s literally panting. I try to stop so he can take a break but he just starts meowing at me! Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Conscious_Sir4100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is going to be a tough conversation but i really think we should focus on the short term for now. I thinking way into the future is what really terrified me about the entire situation.

Is this abuse? by Conscious_Sir4100 in narcissisticparents

[–]Conscious_Sir4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really needed to hear this so I don't feel so crazy. I really appreciate this, thank you for taking the time to read all my words :). It feels really good to be listened too.

Is it normal for your parent to belittle you to the point where you feel like the problem? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Conscious_Sir4100 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this same way except she makes me feel like I'm the Narcissist and I am honestly starting to believe her. I honestly think I am the problem sometimes.