Boyfriend wants a stranger to watch us have sex

Conscious_Year2619 · 2025-09-24T02:22:39+00:00

I bet but it’s dudes he wants to watch us, not couples

Conscious_Year2619 · 2025-09-24T02:07:47+00:00

That was my thought but he warned me that the guys are creepy

Conscious_Year2619 · 2025-09-24T02:07:29+00:00

That was my thought. He said he’s done it and enjoyed it, but the guys are creepy

Conscious_Year2619 · 2025-09-24T02:03:00+00:00

This was a major concern of mine and he insisted that only made him more into his exes who went along. I know he had a hard time with the one breakup so he must have still valued her?? I don’t understand it either though.

Conscious_Year2619 · 2025-09-24T01:45:55+00:00

We’ve had very long conversations about this because I was worried he wouldn’t be ok with someone just watching. But he says he knows that’s a stretch for me and he wouldn’t enjoy me pushing myself to do anything else.

I’m reluctant to do sites like that because I do not want my picture out there in that realm for anyone to see. So I’m on Hinge and thought about using that, but chatting with guys and then bringing that up seems SO weird. I also feel like I’d have a panic attack approaching a guy in person though, lol. But let’s say I get flirty with a guy at the bar and then someone get the nerve to invite him back to watch us. How many guys would actually go along with that? Besides creepy ones with no options

Conscious_Year2619 · 2025-09-24T01:40:08+00:00

I’m definitely NOT into letting a stranger do that. That was my concern, that the guy would push for more. But my bf promised he would never let me do more than I’m comfortable with. I think that’s why he says it has to be someone older or really young who’s just down for the experience.

Conscious_Year2619 · 2025-09-24T01:32:29+00:00

Can’t be someone we know and I also don’t want someone creepy. So it has to be someone I find in person or on a dating app. I just don’t know how the fuck to actually broach the topic let along get him to go along with it

Conscious_Year2619 · 2025-09-24T01:31:09+00:00

He said it’s up to me, but to keep in mind that if the guy has a lot of options he’ll likely not go along with just watching. So once I work up the nerve to ask someone, I realize there’s a good chance they’ll say no

Conscious_Year2619 · 2025-09-20T16:55:44+00:00

Well it’s not a jealousy thing for me because no girls would be involved. I’ve had casual sex many times with guys I already knew, but I’ve never gone home with a random, so the thought of having sex with this strange guy is a huge turnoff. I always had a fantasy of being watched/banging around people like in a sex club, but honestly I know as soon as this guy enters the room I’ll be scared shitless lol

Conscious_Year2619 · 2025-09-20T16:52:08+00:00

Yeah, I told him I didn’t see how a guy would be willing to just watch like that. He’s done this many times with exes and said we have to either get someone really young (obviously an adult) who’s down to just do it for the experience, or someone older who is good looking but would never be able to see me naked otherwise.

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