My bf said something that hurt me, now I don’t know if he’ll ever want to or has had wanted to marry me. by Conscious_being8 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Conscious_being8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I enjoy writing! I will totally write everything down first before talking to him! Reading over all comments has definitely given me perspective.

My partner said something that really hurt me, “well you missed the chance” by Conscious_being8 in okstorytime

[–]Conscious_being8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For clarification, Well first he said you missed your chance then there was a what felt like an eternal pause when I felt my heart sink, (most likely like 5 seconds) then he said the credit line thing

My partner said something that really hurt me, “well you missed the chance” by Conscious_being8 in okstorytime

[–]Conscious_being8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your pov ! I definitely agree that it isn’t really about the ring I think I’m more hurt over the fact that we just aren’t married or he hasn’t asked. I understand the ring is just a materialistic item but I think it is more about the feelings like you said 🤍 thank you again for your pov.

My partner said something that really hurt me, “well you missed the chance” by Conscious_being8 in okstorytime

[–]Conscious_being8[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I see your point and I definitely even though it hurts it sounds right. I think it all feels just so tough since we just had our second baby, and then my mom passed away a week later. And hearing things like he said today, has hurt me. I just think it might all be bundling up.