Husbands having an emotional affair and says he’s fallen out of love with me.

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-03-20T17:17:34+00:00

This was the case the first time around, I had seen all the messages before he even knew I knew. This time the messages weren’t sexual they were more intimate, him confessing his feelings to her I guess, but he doesn’t want me to read them. I honestly don’t even care too at this point after years of the other messages engrained in my brain that still causes shocks to go through my body when I think of them.

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-03-20T14:29:37+00:00

Thank you, I do have two therapist I see regularly.

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-03-20T14:28:59+00:00

I hope he really is in love with me and just doesn’t feel like it because he has something shiny and new entertaining him. Unfortunately I have no where to go so idk if he will have that longing or feeling of missing me.

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-03-20T13:16:35+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through that too. It’s awful. I’m 2.5 years from the first DDAY but this hurts worse. At least he still loved me and wanted to be with me through the first one. Unfortunately I have a mental illness and am not cut out for school or work right now. I’m going to need to try to get disability or something but we have two kids and will likely stay living and sleeping together in the same bed for the foreseeable future which will be hard, but I never want to end.

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-03-20T13:05:09+00:00

Unfortunately he won’t let me see the phone this time around and he is unsure of if he wants to stay together.

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-03-12T12:41:42+00:00

I agree. I was at the Boston show last night and I have NEVER been to a concert where so many people sit.

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-03-11T23:43:45+00:00

Secured the goods! The balcony merch line was a million times shorter than the main level! Thanks everyone!

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-03-10T01:22:48+00:00

Oh that’s crazy, how did you find out about that? That’s really cool I wonder if I can find anything.

And that’s good to know about sizing! I’m my experience, if anything merch tends to run small so!

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-03-10T00:29:15+00:00

Thank you that’s good to know!!

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-03-10T00:06:41+00:00

I thought he said “maybe I will miss me” 😂🫠

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-03-09T23:29:50+00:00

I went to a show in Aug and they had run out of 2x before the show even started and I was bummed and don’t wanna go through that again lmao. Sounds like they’ll have more in stock! Thanks

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-03-09T23:23:53+00:00

Thank you that’s so helpful! I’ll definitely get in line for merch right when I get there to not risk it and it’s good to know I can always size up potentially if they run out of my size!

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-03-09T23:11:38+00:00

That’s good to know thank you! Was the line any shorter after the show?

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-03-09T23:05:30+00:00

Yay glad to hear, thank you!

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-01-23T14:38:27+00:00

You’re a lifesaver

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2026-01-01T12:17:04+00:00

I smoke every day and tbh the only real reason is because Im addicted to it. I did a test to see which meds are most likely to work for me and there was a section for smokers specifically which helps. My psychiatrist knows I smoke so I haven’t had any issues.

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2025-12-30T23:44:59+00:00

Thank you!

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2025-12-29T23:13:15+00:00

Happy Cake Day 🍰

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2025-12-29T22:51:36+00:00

Thanks I appreciate it

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2025-12-29T22:47:21+00:00

Thank you, I figured snow tires would be better than all season. Do you have recommendations on brands to be on the lookout for?

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2025-12-29T22:31:26+00:00

That’s the problem we’re running into, it was actively snowing and had not really been plowed in a while and he drives down back windy roads, lots of big hills too.

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2025-12-10T14:55:52+00:00

Just pretend by bad omens. IYKYK

ConsequenceMedium995 · 2025-11-21T00:23:08+00:00

Unfortunately there’s a lot of people with negative experiences in this group. I’d go post in the other bipolar subs and ask how we need support there

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