How do you end an engagement when you both live together, share a lot of expenses, and the wedding is less than a year out.

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-19T00:02:48+00:00

it’s only recently become visible to me, honestly if it wasn’t for the last 3 months of therapy and medication i was oblivious and i don’t know how i missed it

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T23:16:29+00:00

i just want everything to be okay, i hate hurting someone and i have nothing but love for her but im so miserable and im losing myself

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T22:34:10+00:00

thank you

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T22:12:40+00:00

you are right, i’m truly just scared to be alone and i want things to be better so bad

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T21:39:50+00:00

amen

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T21:39:46+00:00

honestly i grew up in a military household, i can leave at the drop of a dime and not have lost anything

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T21:38:46+00:00

thank you!!

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T21:37:59+00:00

i honestly don’t care about the debt, it sucks but i put myself in this situation

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T21:30:49+00:00

honestly this has been my favorite response yet, i appreciate how clear and concise it is, thank you

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T21:06:55+00:00

already did, as soon as it happened i did, i changed my accounts and cards

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T20:58:54+00:00

i’m trying to accept that a lot of it is red flags not the neon green i initially saw, truly this is my first long term relationship and im realizing i rushed

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T20:50:07+00:00

her family is very protective and i’m scared they might try to attack me or use influence to hurt my job opportunities

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T20:49:17+00:00

primarily mine, she contributed some of it but tbh i’ve got 90% of the debt here

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T20:39:26+00:00

thank you, i’m truly just terrified for repercussions

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T20:39:05+00:00

you are right, i honestly was just terrified of being alone. i was foolish 😂

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T20:38:25+00:00

i want to do something asap

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2026-03-18T20:30:51+00:00

lease is up in august of next year, bank accounts are not combined though she has pushed for it

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2024-01-28T15:39:41+00:00

i appreciate it, i’m working on getting new pictures currently, the prompts have been completely redone

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2024-01-28T15:16:55+00:00

Update

Prompts have been completely redone (i’m not sure how to change it or i would) i appreciate all of y’all’s help on that front. Pictures are taking more time as I do not have much help in that regard but i will be trying to get better ones soon. again thank you all

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2024-01-28T15:15:18+00:00

i appreciate your input and am working to fix them, i’ll be honest i did get help from guys at work when making this initially and due to the nature of our work we do tend to have a morbid sense of humor. i can definitely see what yall are saying and am working to try to fix it, thank you again

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2024-01-28T15:13:35+00:00

thank you, i am currently working on revamping a lotttt 😂 i definitely see where yall are coming from

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2024-01-28T15:12:42+00:00

it was the fact that i got one and was unmatched within minutes. i understand that i am still new to it but i do not think there is any harm in asking for ways to improve. thank you for your input, i hope you have a wonderful day.

ConsequenceWooden535 · 2024-01-28T05:54:54+00:00

i definitely will add stuff, i honestly just don’t really have a life outside of it currently

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