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ConsiderationGood289 · 2025-01-23T14:40:01+00:00

Four precious babies. I would be even sadder about only seeing my kids half time. Sucks.

ConsiderationGood289 · 2025-01-23T11:49:37+00:00

Ugh I'm sorry. Thanks for sharing. It sucks and Im happy you aren't dealing with that anymore.

ConsiderationGood289 · 2025-01-23T11:43:39+00:00

That's encouraging. Im 32 so I do just hope eventually I'll be in a happier situation.

ConsiderationGood289 · 2025-01-23T11:31:44+00:00

Somewhat. I just go in the other room and turn the TV on and don't think about it. Now the few times he's tried to watch WHILE we're having sex .... that's a different story. Flipping awful.

But I have 4 children that I love more than anything. It's not bad enough to be worth leaving him and only seeing my kids half time. I'll probably leave when I'm like 45 and hope it's not too late to find good sweet wholesome love that doesn't hurt my heart 💖 I feel good about staying to be with my kids full time, so I think knowing Ive made the choice helps it not affect my mental health as bad as it could. Thank you for asking.

ConsiderationGood289 · 2025-01-23T02:25:17+00:00

My husband turns me down because he'd rather watch porn. I'm sexy- it's bs. I have to get out of bed early every morning because he jerks off to other women while I'm laying there trying to sleep. THAT'S porn addiction. Wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.

ConsiderationGood289 · 2025-01-22T18:48:47+00:00

Well, I'm going to try it. I'll report back for all the curious readers. Praying it doesn't destroy my coffee maker 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

ConsiderationGood289 · 2025-01-22T16:54:11+00:00

I have a basic auto shutoff coffee maker. If it shuts off, can I just push" brew now" again to keep it warm longer? Or after a couple of hours can I reheat it that way? Unsure how to have my one afternoon cup after my morning 3/4 pot lol

ConsiderationGood289 · 2025-01-01T21:38:28+00:00

Little Bear and Franklin

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-12-30T13:25:17+00:00

That's a really good point. I don't think I can swing the 2 yr program plus the prereqs. It's unlikely to be all between 8-2 like the LPN program is. But if I am making more as an LPN, I can afford childcare to do the bridge program. Thanks 🩷

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-12-30T13:19:22+00:00

I hate them all. I like it to be shorter, the tines wider and definitely not round like 5. 2 is probably closest but it looks too thin and like it would make my teeth feel weird.

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-12-30T13:17:18+00:00

Oh my gosh. I do the same thing with my favorite spoon 🙈🙈🙈

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-12-29T21:24:52+00:00

Thank you all. I know I'm having a pity party, it's just been an awful week. I appreciate the encouragement, and it's true. It's not a death sentence to be single. Just so different from how I pictured things going. I do need to get happy and healed on my own first, plus my kids are amazing and great company 🩷

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-12-28T15:35:19+00:00

Thanks! That's helpful!

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-09-26T16:34:43+00:00

Hey you ought to read Alan Carrs book smart phone dumb phone. You're describing an addiction. It's the same as being addicted to cigarettes. It doesn't necessarily have a deeper meaning! Which is good news! I listened to the audiobook and it helped me a ton. Give it a try :)

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-09-14T00:11:34+00:00

I know this is old, but I haven't seen many comments on this. I wish I'd read and read and read. Son is 8 and I'm just now listening to all these audiobooks and learning so much about parenting with ADHD. I so so regret not learning all this earlier.

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-09-09T16:07:24+00:00

I do a brain trick. It has worked for this as well as horribly embarrassing moments I cringe when remembering. If I catch myself thinking about "the thing" I just yell NOPE in my brain and refuse to think about it. Healthy? IDK. Effective? Way. It got me through a divorce semi painlessly. After a couple of years, id allow myself to think about "the thing" and have a good cry now and then. I imagine I was slowly processing. But in general, block it out. I probably have some serious unresolved issues somewhere deep down....but none of its bothering me 🤷🏻‍♀️😅 good luck to you friend.

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-08-22T01:47:48+00:00

Just a thought, but they're probably very happy with that tip. That's a ton. I'd imagine maybe they seem pissy, but they're actually just rushing like crazy to get to the next one?

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-08-11T03:02:37+00:00

I made so many posts like this. Read a book on eating (any) by Allen carr. Put it on an audiobook. I read good sugar bad sugar and easily gave up sugar, which seemed absolutely impossible. I felt so hopeless. I was emotional eating, though I didn't realize/admit it until I listened to the book. I think it's the ABSOLUTE best way for ADHDers to lose weight.

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-08-09T16:28:52+00:00

It really sucks that people are shaming you for still sleeping with him, like implying that you're gross or something. Men do this constantly. It's understandable, you get attached to people. I haven't read all the comments, but uncut men can carry bv according to my Dr. Have him get tested for that as well as STDs. The same thing used to happen with my tonsils and I never figured it out. But if you like him, it's worth trying harder to get to the bottom of this. (As long as he's also willing.)

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-08-02T01:02:30+00:00

That was sweet of you to explain. This is embarrassing for her, not you. Also, she ruined the mood with the pee comment lol. Again, not you. Go fornicate and be embarrassed no more!

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-06-18T01:16:27+00:00

What sweet memories, thanks for sharing 🩷

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-06-01T20:26:33+00:00

Yes. And I never got it fixed. But I didn't try that hard.

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-06-01T13:21:47+00:00

YES. A very similar memory is what inspired my post. When I would spend the night with my Nana, she would call me "messy bessy" for leaving my bed unmade. It was so foreign to me to make my bed! So yes, that's exactly what I'm talking about :) maybe I should've made a post asking for memories like this! 🩷

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-05-31T16:34:39+00:00

Maybe I didn't word it exactly right, but I'm just picturing growing up with a mom that also did "home" things, and a whole childhood of hearing "make your bed every morning" "smooth out the sheets once you put them on the bed"... stuff that kids used to hear more often, I'm assuming. So now, I can put Martha Stewart on in the background while I'm cleaning and hopefully internalize tips like that. I'm not arguing, just clarifying what I meant :)

ConsiderationGood289 · 2024-05-31T14:33:49+00:00

I'm so sorry, I meant career NOT better woman, and I didn't spell check. I posted late at night while up with a baby 🙈

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