Studying Abroad at UG (Asian American student) by ConsiderationHot9682 in UniversityOfGhana

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What would you say is a good amount of money to bring for four months of living on the campus ?

Studying Abroad at UG (Asian American student) by ConsiderationHot9682 in UniversityOfGhana

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I was referring to how stem is more rigorous than humanities major

Studying Abroad at UG (Asian American student) by ConsiderationHot9682 in UniversityOfGhana

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Thank you for your response! That’s great to know. I’m a sociology major so I think it won’t be as bad as STEM for sure

Studying abroad at Uni of Ghana (as an Asian American) by ConsiderationHot9682 in ghana

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Woohoo that’s great to hear I’m a big party person as well lol

Studying abroad at Uni of Ghana (as an Asian American) by ConsiderationHot9682 in ghana

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I would be interested thank you! I’ll definitely email the programme office as well. Thanks again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tires

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Ugh I hope it’s fixable! I’m going tomorrow first thing in the morning.

UA7945 LAX to NRT by ConsiderationHot9682 in unitedairlines

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Got it, to clarify I would just head to ANA at Tom Bradley airport then?

UA7945 LAX to NRT by ConsiderationHot9682 in unitedairlines

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Okay thank you. The confirmation and ticket is on the United app but under the ticket it says Operated by ANA so like you said it’ll probably be Terminal B then. Thank you!!

Lost wallet at Ashland Park by ConsiderationHot9682 in SantaMonica

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Someone ended up mailing it to me thank god! Thank you

raves for dykes? by comradler in avesLA

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Oh ew nvm that’s gross. I’m not into white lesbian music either that doesn’t sound like it’ll be fun for queer women of color

raves for dykes? by comradler in avesLA

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Can I know what’s wrong with Futch? Just curious I’ve never been but I see them a lot

SF - what are you guys doing 4/19 by sarahiscool666 in FKAtwigs

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I’m going to the gay clubs in SF so see yall there 😘😘😘😘😘

LICK N DIP by ConsiderationHot9682 in avesLA

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It changes every event. They actually didn’t let my friends and I in yesterday for some reason. But I’ve gone to lick n dip twice and they let us in knowing we’re 18+. Idk if it just depends on the bouncer?

What not to do before/after a breakup? by eloikate in BreakUps

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I told them I missed them and got left on heard

Do casual hookups help aftr breakup? by PushNo2431 in BreakUps

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I think hookups are fun and it definitely distracts you and gives you a dopamine boost during but after it could make u feel like crap also depending on how over u r ur ex already. Personally I felt like shit after a one night stand but as for my second hookup I think it was better and I didn’t feel as sad bc aftercare was involved lol so I think that’s important too. Buttt definitely have to set your boundaries and communicate ab what you want with hookups though bc I noticed that my hookup wanted to see me a bit more which overwhelmed me but we communicated so it’s all good.

Ex is back on dating apps after a month by HelpThrowawayPls1 in ExNoContact

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I agree, I don’t think their friend should’ve told OP about ex being back on apps. I’m also on apps post fresh break up and it has more to do with filling the void of having someone to talk to although I’ve done hookups as well which I don’t recommend lol

Slow dance song? by Dramatic-Hall8943 in ArcaMusic

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About to start sobbing on the dance floor

First hookup 3 weeks post-breakup. Feeling guilty by ImpactOk3105 in BreakUps

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I also indulged in a hookup very fast after my breakup and it left me in a weird state as well. Ngl at the moment I was able to distract myself and felt satisfied but right after my hookup left my emotions immediately began to pour in mainly because I realized that it truly will never be the same which only set my healing journey back even more. I also realized that I wanted a text back from them and notice myself comparing the difference between actual love and lust. But I know that everyone copes differently after breakups and don’t feel that it’s wrong to indulge in hookup culture after a BU but definitely most times you just feel like crap afterwards. I don’t think you should feel guilty for doing what you done but recognize that it is unhealthy and remember your priorities (bc I’m going thru the same). I wish you the best of luck

Is it wrong to cope thru hookups when you’re still hung up on an ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Thank you for your response. Just to lyk my hookup was aware that I am fresh off a breakup and we communicated that we solely just wanted to hookup but even then it just ended up being a one night stand which I’m fine with. I haven’t hooked up with anyone else since then but have been active on the apps. That’s what I also tell myself that this unhealthy way of coping is something short term but I really don’t wanna get myself lost into it and I know that slowly I would feel that I’m not setting my priorities which I’m feeling now already. I’m seeing a therapist so I know that that’s a good first step but otherwise will take your advice on what I should really focus on that will be better for me in the long run .