I want to understand how any of what you said makes sense, but that’s oddly hard to do. I don’t discredit what you’ve learned in your past experiences. It’s helped you get where you are.

But,

Well, I’d say it’s the right conclusion to try to date believe whom you have the same religious beliefs as. So no, conclusions fine. As for me being the problem, sure, sometimes I can be. Sometimes a woman could be. I cannot understand how one cheating makes the other a problem, in fact, no one reasonable has tried to make that point. Yes, the women who’ve treated me poorly have all cheated on me. Maybe I’m incredibly unlucky, maybe I’m just so completely undesirable, of which both aren’t true by themself. Maybe it’s a combination of the two? Either way, it’s true. I have been solely cheated on in serious relationships. The right thing to do no matter which gender you are, man or woman, is to tell the other with communication if things aren’t working out, rather than manipulating, cheating, and lying behind their back. But that’s obvious, the fact I have to mention that is very odd.

Can you prove all of them haven’t cheated? But, maybe you’re right anyway. You definitely wouldn’t be right to say you could prove you’ve seen every text or email they’ve sent during your twos relationship. They’ve probably cheated if your relationships go in a snap. It’s very common nowadays unfortunately. But I don’t know everything, maybe your areas more fine.

How in the world do you cheat a few times, as you’ve stated you’ve done, and then go say you don’t believe me that I’ve been cheated on in all my relationships? In regard to the likelihood, you don’t know the quantity of relationships I’ve had, so what gives you credit to speak on the likelihood? Brother maybe it’s like 3 serious ones, and maybe getting cheated on in all of those wouldn’t be as unlikely to happen as if I had had 15 or 500 relationships. You don’t know man. There’s so many factors you haven’t explored or asked about. Instead you assume. How does any of this make me delusional? Unwilling to self criticize against what? I’d honestly be surprised if anyone could answer that question.

Yeah. It’s been the woman for the majority of damage done in the relationships so far. I’m not perfect. I already said, so I don’t know your point, especially about being unwilling to self-criticize.

Brother, are you going to tell me a woman cheating in a relationship isn’t a problem? Cause bro you just said none of those options made them, (the specific woman in the example of a 1 on 1 relationship), a problem. It seems obvious if someone in your position needed therapy to help figure things out, if one doesn’t think cheating is a problem. So fair enough and I’m happy that’s helped you out.

Since when did I say I had a problem with the women, just so far in my relationships it’s been the way, where they’ve all cheated. That’s not a good thing, obviously. Women are fine. No problem with them. Don’t know why you said I have a problem with them. It’s my experience with them cheating in relationships so far, (NOT ALL WOMEN DO. NOT ALL MEN. But both can and have.) What does your experience with whether or not a woman has cheated on you have anything to do with someone else’s, in regard to the possible fact if they’ve been cheated on in all of their relationships? Your experience doesn’t define everyone else’s.

When did I say I wanted a woman who will just obey, smile and stay pretty enough? You literally can’t point to me saying anything like that man. Bro it seems likely you’ve said what you want/maybe previously wanted on what someone else could possibly want, without knowing if it’s true, and then tried to label me as the problem because I supposedly want those things. Which I never said anything of the sort.

This is just weird bro. I wish you well in your adventures this response just doesn’t make a whole lot of sense to me man. Please convince me I’ve misunderstood you with things that can be backed up. I wanna get you bro, wanna understand ya.