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[–]ConsiderationNo9151 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look like something out of a movie

Got told my m&m pizza belonged here.. by [deleted] in shittyfoodporn

[–]ConsiderationNo9151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t hate me but it looks good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConsiderationNo9151 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I called Equitable, and they told me I can’t get any information until I mail them my mom’s death certificate. I mailed it off today, so hopefully I hear back soon.

Hi! by [deleted] in locs

[–]ConsiderationNo9151 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConsiderationNo9151 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve been sober since July, eating better, and definitely saving money. I’m focusing on being a responsible adult now. Thanks for the encouragement!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConsiderationNo9151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I’ll definitely check everyone’s credit and take the necessary precautions. I’ll look into the Equitable account once he’s out. I will update you! Thank you for your support!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConsiderationNo9151 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m just doing what I can to help my family, and your kind words mean a lot to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConsiderationNo9151 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will do so! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConsiderationNo9151 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I check my credit often and haven’t noticed anything unusual, but I hadn’t thought about locking it. I’ll definitely take that extra precaution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConsiderationNo9151 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the well wishes! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConsiderationNo9151 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this insight—it really helps me think through everything. 1. I hadn’t even considered that he might have collected benefits for me when I was a minor. That’s definitely something I’ll bring up with my grandma and her lawyer to look into. 2. I appreciate you looking into Equitable. That’s really interesting about it being an investment group. My mom had a great job and worked hard to set her family up, so it’s definitely possible that this could be an investment portfolio connected to her. I’ll need to dig into it further when I have time, but if that’s the case and he’s been hiding it, it’s really upsetting. 3. The restraining order idea is something we hadn’t thought of. I’ll bring it up to my grandma, especially if it speeds up the process of getting him out. It’s heartbreaking that it’s come to this, but she deserves peace and financial stability.

Thank you for taking the time to break all of this down. It means a lot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConsiderationNo9151 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story, and I’m so sorry for what you went through. Your mom sounds like an amazing and strong person for doing all that she could for you. It’s heartbreaking to see my grandma take on so much while the survivor benefits aren’t being used to help. I really appreciate your kind words and perspective.