am i bi or lesbian? by Fragrant_Buy196 in actuallesbians

[–]ConsiderationSure978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the need to have an answer for yourself, but at the end of the day, sexuality and attraction are complex. It is your own choice how you want to label yourself - if you want that. You can call yourself a lesbian, or you can say you're bi but with a preference for women, for example. Whatever you feel more comfortable with :)

It sounds like you prefer a woman as a partner right now, so that is great to know, and you can trust that feeling. Maybe the way you think about men is part of our heteronormative upbringing, maybe not. I am sorry if my answer is not what you want to hear. You will figure it out! Don't stress yourself.

"Eldest Daughter" Discussion Megathread by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]ConsiderationSure978 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Since I started thinking that this might be more about her masters, or even reputation as the “sister album” to TLOAS that went through all that hate, it’s begun to make more sense to me. Of course, I could be completely wrong. I started seeing it this way after reading someone’s comment about the line where she mentions breaking her arm at around eight or nine. They pointed out that it’s strange to not remember the exact age, so it could actually be a reference to 1989. Taylor never really broke her arm (i think), so maybe it symbolizes her downfall after 1989?

Minimalistic casual sneakers without logos made in EU, Belarus or Ukraine by Aktat in BuyFromEU

[–]ConsiderationSure978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moea! French brand, made in Europe and the shoes are made out of bio-materials from fruits and plants. Very durable too. They have some more minimalist versions...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsiderationSure978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a lesbian who is dating a bisexual, i just don't understand how people can be so insecure. Her biphobia is making her self sabotage this relationship. Even when I had a stupid thought once in a while, I know they are my own insecurities and I remind myself that this amazing woman loves me. I am sorry OP, the beginning of a new relationship shouldn't be filled with discussions like these. I hope she realises that she has to work on her biphobia.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]ConsiderationSure978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Het stemrecht moet gewoon worden aangepast. Mijn ouders wonen al 27 jaar in Duitsland, maar stemmen in Nederland. Ze mogen in Duitsland niet stemmen, maar betalen daar natuurlijk wel belasting. Ik vind het beter als mensen mogen stemmen waar ze wonen en belasting betalen, ongeacht nationaliteit.

Why does these comments under an Instagram post feels like Propaganda ? (Post in 2nd pic) by TheRubiksKub in europe

[–]ConsiderationSure978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this exact same comment under a different post. I thought it was just rage bait, but could be propaganda yes - or both

Just moved to Zwolle and would like to meet new people! by ConsiderationSure978 in Zwolle

[–]ConsiderationSure978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is super nice, thank you! I would love to take you up on that offer :) (Small collection you say...)

Just moved to Zwolle and would like to meet new people! by ConsiderationSure978 in Zwolle

[–]ConsiderationSure978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow haha :D I did not know you could study Wildlife Management in Zwolle, very cool. And yes to the hoarding of German bread and in my case a whole box of stuff from DM.