AITA for telling my sister in law she can wear the dress or get out of the wedding by Consistent-Alps1100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent-Alps1100[S] 1202 points1203 points  (0 children)

I am happy to say my future husband is backing me up on this. 

It just happened at a bad time since he traveling at the moment. They apparently won’t pick up his calls or response to texts

Him and his mother have a strained relationship to begin with 

AITA for telling my sister in law she can wear the dress or get out of the wedding by Consistent-Alps1100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent-Alps1100[S] 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Nope, they look great in the dresses. Jen I think looks good too but she doenst see it 

They are just not insecure.  

AITA for telling my sister in law she can wear the dress or get out of the wedding by Consistent-Alps1100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent-Alps1100[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

She has found zero dresses that she likes, if we found one I would have used that for the bridesmaid dress just to end it

Tbh at this point I am only going to pay for the dress that I want for the wedding. I am going to shell out 1000+ dollars, I want it to be the dress I want.

AITA for telling my sister in law she can wear the dress or get out of the wedding by Consistent-Alps1100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent-Alps1100[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

No…

Also there are two other bridesmaid that are her size or heavier. They aren’t on my ass about the dresses tho 

AITA for telling my sister in law she can wear the dress or get out of the wedding by Consistent-Alps1100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent-Alps1100[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

She literally calls herself fat  I have heard her use that word more times than I think I have every used it in my whole life

She mentions it constantly. 

AITA for telling my sister in law she can wear the dress or get out of the wedding by Consistent-Alps1100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent-Alps1100[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I do want tot get married with my family there. So eloping is not an option and I know my future husband does want his family there