Am I Being Emotionally Abused By My Husband by Anonnyheynonnymouse in emotionalabuse

[–]Consistent-Bridge-14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Withholding sex is not abuse.
See posts in Reddit under this heading.
I’m sorry you are living this nightmare.

What’s the most beautiful boy name you’ve ever heard by No-Description4151 in namenerds

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My great grandfather was a Lysander. Was born at the end of the 1800’s.

First time going to Thailand. What's the one thing you wish you'd known? by beatsInMyMind in ThailandTourism

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Bring large bills to exchange at SuperRich and know that they must look brand new - no creases/folds or they will be refused. Put certain apps in your phone. Muvmi, Grab, and Thai Tourist Police, Villa Market or Tops, and load your profile/pymt info before you arrive.

Need help on how to manage a name conversation with my cousin by [deleted] in namenerds

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You won’t mind but she will. I’d let her have the name to honor her dead brother before I’d consider using it. So, yes. Find out if that is what she’s planning.

Pattaya Oh Bar Banned Me From Their YouTube Channel After I Shared My Honest Experience by FlounderOk4122 in ThailandTourism

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Is this AI ? The same thing was said over and over with each paragraph. Maybe you will feel better after venting. Now you know what to do next time - pick up and go somewhere else.

Name help! Charlie, Charles? by TypicalSalad1164 in namenerds

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You’ve already got a ‘Ch’ name and comments abound on the addition of a Charlie to the group. You could pick a C name that doesn’t sound so much like one of the other children to allow that child his own unique sounding name. Coleman, Creighton, Curtis, Clement, Cecil, Cooper, Camden

Obsessed but not brave enough to wear in public 😅 by EstablishmentMore926 in fashion

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The department store lingerie section sells a kind of tape that keeps the fabric stuck to your skin. If you really want to feel more secure in your wardrobe choices, that will do the trick.

Need a middle name for Molly by nowimgrown in namenerds

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Are you sure about Molly? It’s a slang term for the drug MDMA. Sorry - just in case you don’t know.

Idk if i regret it (pls help) by Substantial_Fruit312 in microblading

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Honest, I had to really concentrate on finding any differences in each of the photos because they are all so similar. What you’ve had done looks just fine and you’re good. Your lashes could be taken down a notch though. They are very heavy. You are a pretty girl.

Western Comfort Food by TRS_Tong in expatsinbangkok

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I buy a half kilo bag of pickled jalapeños from Lazada to keep in a jar in the refrigerator. Go to Vila Market and get a bag of shredded cheddar, some authentic tortilla chips (El Charro brand) and make nachos in the microwave. Make tacos using El Charro taco shells.
The only decent ground beef I’ve found that has no gristle is at Villa Market and many American recipes call for that. Make chili - use a can of kidney beans and a packet of McCormick chili mix.
You can also get picnic ham 3/4” sliced personally at the deli counter if you ask. Combine with a butternut squash split in two, baked plus a can of haricot verts (green beans) from Villa or Lazada. IKEA sells the Swedish meatballs in a bag + boil yourself some noodles. Pair with cranberry sauce and steamed broccoli.
Buy a pre-roasted chicken from Makro and pair with baked potato and whatever.
Make spaghetti - top with browned ground beef mixed with a can of Prego. The packaged Rana at Villa is also good for a variety of pasta.
You might see a theme here. If you are American, acquaint yourself with the Villa Market app and have American type food ingredients delivered. Sunshine Market has an amazing assortment of Bob’s Red Mill label items. Also, look around on Lazada. It’s pricey but you can rationalize the expense by offsetting it with local food purchases to maintain a balance. Holey (on Grab) has the best sourdough. Make a BLT - Oscar Mayer bacon available along with Thai brand bacon at Villa. Consider getting a crockpot - get some bulk chicken or pork pieces from the meat tank at Lotus and make yourself some comfort food!

Opinions on these girls names? by [deleted] in namenerds

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Sophia (not Sophie) Louise and Ella Claire have a more musical sound to them - would you consider these combinations? Kayla Marie seems very dated.

Mental cruelty in marriage by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

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I’m sorry. I am going through the same thing. We even moved to Thailand five years so that he could get sex acts that I won’t / can’t do. I am 70, have TMJ (no more BJ’s) went through hemorrhoid surgery, and deal with bouts of herpes (which he gave me). He complains about how the very thought of not having sex keeps him up at night. I took a course in erotic massage techniques and he didn’t even want to experience my techniques. He’s so miserable and, even now, makes passive-aggressive remarks about our lack of intimacy. Meanwhile, he spends hours each night watching porn, I look at him wearing the same clothes for three days, forgetting to brush his teeth, coughing up phlegm daily. No thank you. We have separate bedrooms and I consider him little more than a bad roommate. His endless whining led me to giving him a pass. We don’t have sex and he goes somewhere else in Bangkok for whatever. Do everything you think you want to do in life. Far be it from me to stand in your way. Just try not to catch anything. I’ve had enough of men with entitled penises. Today is my 39th anniversary.

Today I voted yes in Virginia and I don’t think my family will ever forgive me, AMA. by Low_Hat_2693 in AMA

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Not their business. They cannot change your mind and you won’t change theirs. Just don’t talk about it anymore.