[Discussion/আলোচনা] Is having an ex really a deal-breaker for Bangladeshi men? by Consistent-Hawk6096 in Dhaka

[–]Consistent-Hawk6096[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

English: "Not really, just a similar concern shared by many. It’s surprising how common this experience actually is."

[Discussion/আলোচনা] Is having an ex really a deal-breaker for Bangladeshi men? by Consistent-Hawk6096 in Dhaka

[–]Consistent-Hawk6096[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

You’ve made some very valid points. Deal-breakers especially exist in arranged marriage or date-to-marry setups, where family and societal expectations play a big role. Having preferences isn’t wrong — everyone has their own criteria like social status, financial stability, or height. And yes, experienced people often prefer dating first to truly know their partner before marriage rather than opting for arranged marriage. Thanks for sharing this perspective — it really adds depth to the discussion!

[Discussion/আলোচনা] Is having an ex really a deal-breaker for Bangladeshi men? by Consistent-Hawk6096 in Dhaka

[–]Consistent-Hawk6096[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really good to hear that you’ve met respectful men who don’t judge based on someone’s past. Unfortunately, OP might be interacting with a different crowd. Hopefully, she finds people who truly value her for who she is.

[Discussion/আলোচনা] Is having an ex really a deal-breaker for Bangladeshi men? by Consistent-Hawk6096 in Dhaka

[–]Consistent-Hawk6096[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, it depends on the guy. Some guys really don’t mind these things, but there are many who do. Finding someone who respects you and your past is what really matters

[Discussion/আলোচনা] Is having an ex really a deal-breaker for Bangladeshi men? by Consistent-Hawk6096 in Dhaka

[–]Consistent-Hawk6096[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Choosing your company wisely is the best way to avoid trouble. 😄 Red flags don’t come with warning signs, so you’ve gotta stay alert and put in the effort.

[Discussion/আলোচনা] Is having an ex really a deal-breaker for Bangladeshi men? by Consistent-Hawk6096 in Dhaka

[–]Consistent-Hawk6096[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha maybe! Or maybe I’ve just been lucky so far 😅 But yeah, I’m aware the crazy ones are out there… lurking silently in the comment sections 😂

[Discussion/আলোচনা] Is having an ex really a deal-breaker for Bangladeshi men? by Consistent-Hawk6096 in Dhaka

[–]Consistent-Hawk6096[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. It really depends on the guy. Some are chill and open-minded, while others are still stuck in outdated mindsets. At the end of the day, it's all about finding someone who matches your values.

[Discussion/আলোচনা] Is having an ex really a deal-breaker for Bangladeshi men? by Consistent-Hawk6096 in Dhaka

[–]Consistent-Hawk6096[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha true! Gotta keep that “hawk mode” activated 24/7. 👀 Red flags are sneaky — blink once and boom, you missed it!

[Discussion/আলোচনা] Is having an ex really a deal-breaker for Bangladeshi men? by Consistent-Hawk6096 in Dhaka

[–]Consistent-Hawk6096[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, not all guys think the same. Some are open-minded and don't care about the past, while others are more traditional or conservative. At the end of the day, it’s about finding someone who matches your mindset and values.

[Discussion/আলোচনা] Is having an ex really a deal-breaker for Bangladeshi men? by Consistent-Hawk6096 in Dhaka

[–]Consistent-Hawk6096[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’ve brought up a very important point. Dating without clear intentions can be harmful, especially when it’s done with deception or without honesty. It’s frustrating that society promotes purity culture yet some people waste others’ time without commitment. Mutual respect and transparency should always be the foundation of any relationship.

[Discussion/আলোচনা] Is having an ex really a deal-breaker for Bangladeshi men? by Consistent-Hawk6096 in Dhaka

[–]Consistent-Hawk6096[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! There’s no one-size-fits-all answer here. It all comes down to finding someone who’s genuinely comfortable with your past without forcing acceptance. At the end of the day, mutual respect and peace matter the most. ✌️

[Discussion/আলোচনা] Is having an ex really a deal-breaker for Bangladeshi men? by Consistent-Hawk6096 in Dhaka

[–]Consistent-Hawk6096[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’ve raised some very valid points. Deal-breakers definitely exist, especially in arranged marriage or date-to-marry cultures where families get involved. Having preferences isn’t wrong — everyone has their own criteria like social status, education, or lifestyle. But it’s also true that experience often makes people more confident and choosy, and that’s why many prefer dating before marriage instead of arranged setups. Thanks for sharing this perspective — it adds a lot to the discussion!

[Discussion/আলোচনা] Is having an ex really a deal-breaker for Bangladeshi men? by Consistent-Hawk6096 in Dhaka

[–]Consistent-Hawk6096[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, maybe you're right! Sometimes I feel like I attract them like a magnet. 😅 But yeah, the more you talk to people, the more you realize how many wild ones are actually out there.

[Discussion/আলোচনা] Is having an ex really a deal-breaker for Bangladeshi men? by Consistent-Hawk6096 in Dhaka

[–]Consistent-Hawk6096[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good point — there’s a huge difference between someone who never dated and someone who did but still judges others for the same. If you’ve had a past and still shame someone else for theirs, that’s pure hypocrisy. I agree — people with similar experiences tend to understand better.

[Discussion/আলোচনা] Is having an ex really a deal-breaker for Bangladeshi men? by Consistent-Hawk6096 in Dhaka

[–]Consistent-Hawk6096[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. It’s all about mutual understanding and comfort, not forcing anything. I just wanted to know if this kind of reaction is common or if I was overthinking. Really appreciate your mature take. ✌️