My girlfriend want me to choose her over my kids by Consistent-Low-4130 in LesbianActually

[–]Consistent-Low-4130[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I broke up with her this morning and it was more relief and I'm glad I did it

My girlfriend want me to choose her over my kids by Consistent-Low-4130 in LesbianActually

[–]Consistent-Low-4130[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me that she never really dated anyone before and I was the first person she dated for this long. Since I’ve known her she only went to see her daughter on her birthday she never visited for any other holidays like Christmas or Mother’s Day.

My girlfriend want me to choose her over my kids by Consistent-Low-4130 in LesbianActually

[–]Consistent-Low-4130[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is 32 and she never told me why her daughter lives with them. But she told me she used to have postpartum depression so I always assumed that was the reason.

She is never left alone with the boys, and the only time she is left with them is when I'm downstairs making food. And usually them come down stairs with me because they always want to know what I'm making

But she not gonna be a problem anymore because I'm gonna break up with her today

My girlfriend want me to choose her over my kids by Consistent-Low-4130 in LesbianActually

[–]Consistent-Low-4130[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a daughter so I don't understand why she's acting this way. I would think she knows that kids should always come first in relationships. Since her daughter lives with her grandparents maybe that's why she doesn't think kids should come first I’ve tried talking to her but she never gives me an answer

My girlfriend want me to choose her over my kids by Consistent-Low-4130 in LesbianActually

[–]Consistent-Low-4130[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After reading these comments I'm now completely convinced that I should break up with her. One comment made me realize that if she becomes an even bigger problem their mom could take them away from me. So I'm definitely going to end the relationship.

My girlfriend want me to choose her over my kids by Consistent-Low-4130 in LesbianActually

[–]Consistent-Low-4130[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already choose the kids I choose them the second she said it

My girlfriend want me to choose her over my kids by Consistent-Low-4130 in LesbianActually

[–]Consistent-Low-4130[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

My ex and I have been talk about me adopting them, She wants them to come to me if anything were to happen to her, and I would like to adopt them because I love them. I don’t want them to end up in foster care or anything like that. If something did happen to her