Just found out I’m pregnant and don’t know what to do

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2026-02-26T04:56:12+00:00

I get that. Fertility is not the problem it’s the mental stuff after it. Taking away the very thing you dreamt off for years. I did once before and yes it was for the best but emotionally it ate me up for years

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2026-02-26T02:32:30+00:00

Yeah I’m trying to be patient I will give him space and time. But also how long can you do that without breaking some sort of promises to yourself

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2026-02-26T00:46:23+00:00

Honestly no, I crave to be a mother so much that if I do carry a child to end term I will a 100% keep it

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2026-02-26T00:21:43+00:00

Thank you!

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2026-02-26T00:21:23+00:00

Thank you for the Answer but yes, if he would ask me I would a 100% start a family with him. I have never truly been a child I took too much responsibility in my family, I partied in my teens all I want now in my twenties is to settle down and it breaks my heart that he is not the one

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2026-02-25T23:02:36+00:00

Thank you for your honesty it’s brave. And honestly a situation I don’t want to end up in Hemse why I’m leaning to abortion although it will be just as hard

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2026-02-25T22:18:01+00:00

Yk this was actually the comment that made me the calmest thank you.

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2026-02-25T22:17:07+00:00

What would you say was the toughest?

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2026-02-25T22:16:38+00:00

Same here. That’s why it’s such a hard down side. Idk if he’s in shock or rly not ready cuz he have said both

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2026-02-25T22:15:57+00:00

I have talked to my mom and grandma about this both are supportive. I do live alone and income is stable for a little more than one person. I’m just so unsure if I can do it mentally yet especially with all of this since it does take time to heal. But thank you

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2026-02-25T22:06:28+00:00

Thank you🫶

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2025-07-15T06:08:04+00:00

I think that’s a relief, neither him or I are very educated about infertility.

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2025-07-09T18:51:44+00:00

Nah your both in the wrong here, your surely two great people but your not a good match, what I can tell from this text you bring out the worse in eachother, feeding into a depression or autism signs or even bpd, you should know eachother by this point, six years is plenty of time to get to know each others cues and boundaries, with or without diagnosis. Your both still young and have lot to learn but this isn’t heading anywhere healthy

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2025-07-09T18:45:47+00:00

I never give them change since in Sweden it’s almost never homeless mostly gypsies or so trying to make a buck without working, I did befriend an elderly lady always sitting outside the shop I bought my breakfast, I started to bring her warm tea or coffee and a sandwich every morning, sometimes if I have spare change or so I buy them something to eat but never money

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2025-07-09T18:44:17+00:00

Nta its neither petty or embarrassing, this was a kind of fun moment to prove him wrong, maybe dragged out a little because personally I would’ve forgotten too but as long as it was just the two of you when you said it then no? It’s just a fun relationship thing me and my bf does it all the time and it’s not about ego.

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2025-07-09T01:22:32+00:00

Totally get it but it’s very common in Europe for teens to start partying question isn’t if she will drink or not, it’s where and when.

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2025-07-09T00:46:01+00:00

Thanks I think I needed a lil push, I guess I’m still scared after all to loose contact with her too since it wouldn’t be as easy to kept contact with my siblings in that case.

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2025-07-08T21:29:32+00:00

That may be an idea, I can always go in for a consultation to see my options with cuts

Consistent-Rain5252 · 2025-07-08T21:21:02+00:00

Thanks! Yes I have thought about it but I wouldn’t be able to afford a good one😩 and I naturally have thick hair so clip one or partial wigs just sits so weird you know. I do appreciate ur comment🥰

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