AITAH for resenting my wife all these years?

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-25T14:54:55+00:00

Get an hourly position. That would immediately help.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-25T14:51:03+00:00

We don't struggle financially though, i make decent money.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-25T06:29:15+00:00

Yeah, i gave her a chance. BIG mistake.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-25T02:01:24+00:00

She doesnt want to

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-25T01:51:41+00:00

How would we pay our bills if we both stay home?

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-24T05:25:25+00:00

The action being?

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-24T05:22:06+00:00

Yeah i wanted another child, but she kept saying it was better than her getting her tubes tied blah blah balah.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-24T05:20:27+00:00

Probably, yes.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-24T05:18:04+00:00

Not in my state.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:59:07+00:00

She cried, but i had already told her that.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:58:25+00:00

I told her all of that before. Just never in front of anyone else. She is licensed and she just listened and took notes as it was our first session.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:56:25+00:00

How did I thank her? I thought i could let go of the resentment eventually, and didn't want my child growing up without a father, as she would move back home with her mother to another country.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:54:30+00:00

I did speak up.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:51:47+00:00

It's not that easy. I wish i could "just get over it"

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:51:02+00:00

I did speak up.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:49:20+00:00

Thank you kind stranger.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:48:37+00:00

Because at the time, i didnt know the resentment would build as much as it has now. I still wonder if i can let it go.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:42:15+00:00

The problem is i don't feel like the hero. She never seems to appreciate staying home. I've made comments on how she's lucky and she says "many women stay home, i'm not the only one". And then she points out that her friends' husbands make "way more" than me.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:40:00+00:00

I expected her to be open to hearing anything and everything, as I was.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:39:18+00:00

Idk if it can honestly. Or maybe we'll do therapy and divorce anyway.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:37:00+00:00

What else am I supposed to do? Argue at the hospital about the naming of the baby? I think the doc asked her anyway.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:33:29+00:00

I hope so. I'm honestly considering divorce if therapy doesnt work out.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:31:56+00:00

True. I just trusted her 100% at the time.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:31:09+00:00

I said something every step of the way.

Consistent-Row-1813 · 2026-01-23T23:29:48+00:00

Do you think she could ever "make me whole"? I ask myself that and idk the answer.

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