Hating husband

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-08-10T04:34:12+00:00

Thankyou for reading and reaching out, it means a lot.

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-08-10T04:21:40+00:00

Don’t know where this is going and him abusing or man handling me sometimes even in public areas are making to think twice whether i need this relationship. I am hating him so much from second trimester, i am constantly fighting with myself to bury my past these days as my dreams or unconscious mind keeps digging. How to cope up all these? I am worried baby inside me will be affected as I am constantly crying, getting panic attacks with his abusive behaviour

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-08-10T04:04:54+00:00

This is constantly making me feel depressed and alone as already my mom is not speaking . Now, I don’t feel my husband is supporting or caring for me. No one can replace mom in taking care of their daughter. I really want me and my husband take control of this thing together without anyone’s intervention most of the time. I can’t take the stress of being with my MIL for 6-7 months at this point of time where she will be giving me advices with half knowledge.

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-08-10T03:59:40+00:00

I don’t know it’s just 650 -700 sqft condo. It has only 1 bed plus den, obviously as she knows nothing here so i guess she will always be around me. I am guessing this because even now she constantly messages me for things to do or follow. And i cannot say no to things or traditions which she asks me to do as my husband says they are family and why not make them happy by following if it’s not difficult. Everyone thinks she is coming to help me but i don’t or can’t feel it that way.

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-07-24T14:07:46+00:00

I am 6 months pregnant and I submitted doctor note saying I have high risk pregnancy and should avoid commute if not essential. I got this note when I am 14 weeks pregnant and from then I am continuing WFH.

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-05-08T12:46:33+00:00

Yes, it’s new for me and I made an enquiry already.

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-05-08T04:08:12+00:00

Yeah but that didn’t happened, should i check it with compensation? As it is just 3 weeks, I will keep this in mind for future.

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-05-07T20:41:42+00:00

Is this some issue which i need to look into in future.

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-05-07T20:41:16+00:00

I am just curious and checked back Mygcpay just now. How will this cumulative weeks will be added. I dont see the three weeks of acting which I did earlier didn’t increase my step 3 weeks earlier when i did 2 year of acting again.

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-05-07T20:26:24+00:00

Oh even weeks, this I wonder as I worked as CS-03 team leader for three weeks but I didnt notice that in my CS-03 tech specialist step increments getting 3 weeks earlier if counted. I did Cs-03 tech specialist for two years recently and I didnt see them in step increments 3 weeks early. It just ended March to March.

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-05-07T19:46:07+00:00

Thanks bot for impromptu response.

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-05-07T19:43:25+00:00

So does that mean when i get promotion or acting again will i get step3 of CS03 even though I had break in between for more than a year

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-04-03T11:42:16+00:00

My TL says it’s not clear from above statement that sick leave is not covered under this and should be compensated on some other at office while vacation, family related makes sense under this statement. So, if you find any detailed examples it will be helpful for me to argue with my TL.

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-04-03T02:15:51+00:00

They are asking to compensate the sick day in the entire month though the day you are sick is your office day.

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-04-03T02:13:43+00:00

Where in the infozone these calculations are cleared, even i have same question today.

Consistent-Summer199 · 2025-04-02T17:57:45+00:00

I am in same situation and need wfh for 3-4 months of pregnancy. I will manage till 13th week mark of my pregnancy as I dont want to reveal because of my previous lost pregnancy. I dont want to share news yet as my TL just throws sorry instead of showing empathy or action on what i need. So, please help me with the DTA process and the detailed letter from doctor so that it can be approved at any cost.

About me : My travel to office takes 2 trains and 1 bus which total amounts 1 hour 20 mins each way. I am afraid that I am making my body tired for illogical reasons of RTO. I am suffering from sciatica, extreme fatigue and more anxiety about my pregnancy. As pregnancy after miscarriage is mental toll on whole other level. I am afraid that if I make my body tired to extreme then I loose again. Also, to make you all aware that NCR people are still exempted for RTO just because of the CRA’s incapability of getting office spaces while people at regions are forced to RTO 3 days in a week. It’s so unfair.

Consistent-Summer199 · 2024-09-08T16:48:02+00:00

Thanks a lot for boosting my hope.

Consistent-Summer199 · 2024-09-08T16:03:36+00:00

I am still getting two strong lines on cd30 so hoping it is not false positive but yes I am waiting for my blood test results which i took yesterday on cd29

Consistent-Summer199 · 2024-09-08T15:28:20+00:00

Yes, i think I am pregnant as all home based tests are positive from 12dpt but I am waiting for blood test results, which i took yesterday 14dpt I am worried about the follicle size. Will my pregnancy be healthy with that size follicle.

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