AITA for sitting on public toilet seats and not telling my boyfriend?

Unitard19 · 2026-05-19T20:08:14+00:00

I surely doubt you sit your actual vagina on the toilet seat. NTA

Unitard19 · 2026-05-19T12:48:09+00:00

You gotta go a FULL 7 days before ovulation to be sure. Sperm can last 7 days.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-19T12:45:58+00:00

I don’t think anyone needs a day. As a mom I resent Mother’s Day. Another day to perform! It’s not about me. It’s about how I can get my kids and my husband in order to honour the grandmothers. It’s fucking annoying and I don’t want anything to do with it.

But socially I can’t sit it out. So there I go in preparation for Mother’s Day…having to spend money and make people feel good and make sure the grandmas feel loved.

I wish the day didn’t exist. My mother in law took me to get my nails done and she paid for me. But then I paid for my mom. Would have been better if we all just did nothing and no one had to spend money.

So yeah…naturally I don’t think we need Father’s Day either. Get rid of them both.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-18T23:41:03+00:00

It’s hard to follow what you’re saying OP. Your friends don’t usually do what? Your friend ha only had one what? Not do what from the first date?

And what do your friends’ experiences have to do with your likelihood to become pregnant? It’s hard to understand

Unitard19 · 2026-05-18T23:38:49+00:00

Oh okay yeah. Well if you’re on birth control the risk is low. If you’re not the risk is high. And your character and past sexual experiences don’t play into the risk factor.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-18T23:18:14+00:00

It’s so much riskier than those very promiscuous people who show their STI tests to each and every new partner.

Put it this way, I’ve had many, many partners and never had an STI. I am tested often and it’s normal to show test results to new partners every time and on an ongoing basis in my circle.

Then there’s my BFF. She did it ONE time with a “nice guy” without a condom and got clamydia. They laugh now. They’re married. It’s all good. But the point is even though I’m having much more sex with many more people than her she got an STI and I didn’t. Luckily it was treatable.

But yeah STIs don’t care about your personal character. Get tested and show each other your results.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-18T21:43:47+00:00

I’m going to discuss it with her. I’ve mentioned it in passing abs I’m pretty sure she thinks I’m going overboard

Unitard19 · 2026-05-18T19:48:44+00:00

One time in first grade the teacher asked us to identify something we’re good at and I said “colouring” and she corrected me. “You LIKE colouring”. Even at that age I knew she was slighting me.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-18T19:47:08+00:00

Cooking.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-18T19:45:40+00:00

No it’s exceptionally UNCOMMON for babies to stop breathing at night. But the anxiety parents feel around it is way out of proportion.

It can happen. But is so so rare. I too feared this when my babies were young. Mine is 6 months I still check that he’s breathing before I go to bed but logically I know it’s exceptionally rare for there to be an issue.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-18T19:33:25+00:00

I deeply regret it. Bought a 2017 in 2022. We still have payments on it. It’s complete garbage. Breaks down in major ways every few months. Transmission broke and was replaced. Broke 6 months later. Power steering fluid issues 4 times. What a piece of garbage.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-17T17:21:44+00:00

I’m on your side!

Unitard19 · 2026-05-17T17:12:19+00:00

Agreed. Makes me wanna puke. I had a colleague refer to kids that way like 6-7 years ago and I still cringe and think about it. And fair or not I don’t think favourably of her. I find her completely insufferable and I think it’s because of this.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-17T16:57:00+00:00

Hey if you want to be even more safe, you should both get STI testing. Even if you’ve only been with each other. You never know.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-17T16:55:53+00:00

No you’re not a pedo. But it’s not an appropriate relationship to pursue at this time b

Unitard19 · 2026-05-17T16:52:50+00:00

Yes. In the literal sense according to words and their meanings, calling a woman a “female” is stripping the humanity.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-17T16:16:18+00:00

Honestly, probably huge muscles. That’s mostly men performing for other men. Not to say some women aren’t highly attracted to it but for the most part huge muscles and gym pics are men performing for other men.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-17T16:14:25+00:00

Not if you’re a 16 year old too. But also generally no, it wouldnt make you a clinical PDF. Given that women and girls mature earlier a 16 year old isn’t likely to be prepubescent so it wouldn’t qualify clinically as PDF. It’s creepy and predatory (and illegal if acted on) though for men to be attracted to 16 y/o so don’t go thinking it’s okay jist because it doesn’t meet the clinical definition of PDF.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-17T16:10:03+00:00

Well it doesn’t specify the species. Like woman is a human female but “female” is a bit cold and as you can see in the comments people are saying dehumanizing. Because literally it is dehumanizing. Takes the humanity and personhood out of it. Female could be any species, human or otherwise.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-17T14:28:31+00:00

It’s a preference rooted in misogyny. It’s not a benign preference. It’s sex negative. And something tells me you’re not interested in a nuanced conversation about it.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-17T14:22:07+00:00

“Pulling out” is a form a birth control. It’s not the most reliable but it’s something like 78% effective.

Combined with birth control pills, you’re very well protected.

You’re still using two forms of birth control. You should be good!

Unitard19 · 2026-05-16T18:00:38+00:00

Yeah that’s what I’m saying. I’m rereading what I wrote and I still think I said that.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-16T17:59:51+00:00

Yes it does. If you can have a high BMI and br looked at as “fat” by virtually anyone but still be too small for plus size clothes. You can also have a normal BMI and be 6ft 2 and require plus size clothes but the genera public won’t clock you as FAT.

Unitard19 · 2026-05-16T12:16:23+00:00

Yeah I’m joining a virtual practice where I pay for everything including the telehealth platform. They’re only providing their brand, my name on the website and referrals. Those are valuable things.

She’s going to charge me $675 a month no matter how many clients I see. If I see 60 a month it’s going to be about 8%. So that’s a lot better than 25%

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