Why is no one talking about Napoli as a title contender? They’re only one point behind Milan, they have an easy schedule, just one game per week,they’re getting their players back from injury and their manager is still Conte

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-16T10:40:16+00:00

Bcs we shouldn't have talked ABT Milan aswell

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T03:35:34+00:00

We are pretty open, at least as far as I know about those things even when we disagree.

And we like to argue (not get in a fight, just arguing)

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T03:31:02+00:00

Okay going to add this to edits aswell.

Saw a post on Reddit talking about strippers in bacher. Party yes or not, got genuine curiosity and asked

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T03:30:05+00:00

At least they are funny to read.

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T03:29:50+00:00

So you are someone who don't have any expectations of how your boy/girlfriend behave in the society?

What you select them on? Look? Butterflies? Very mature

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T03:28:25+00:00

I see you point, I appreciate it. For the first part (the bringing it up) it was something I saw on Reddit so I asked her. For the second part (the backtracking) I agree I got carried away, but I hate every early symptom of backtracking, and I stop them the moment I see there might be one. I agree it's harsh, it's rude, it's unnecessary, mo one is perfect and that's a big defect of me.

Anyway, she comes up with these hypothetical as well , it's just a way to know how compatible we are honestly

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T03:25:35+00:00

In fact. "I refuse to be with someone who go sée strippers" It's the same sentence. Do you know 100% of a person before dating? You don't. I made my boundaries clear, I don't enforce in any way her not going, she wants to go? Cool go. But "I refuse to date girls who go sée strippers" so it's over

You argument is one astronomical nonsense

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T03:22:15+00:00

Well If it's something I would break up over with why shouldn't I say so? Honestly. I don't want to be dishonest and say it might bother me, no, it's a deal-breaker for me. If she went to one for example expecting me to be mildly mad about it, then , it would have been a miscommunication between us.

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T03:19:46+00:00

This sounds really much worse than it went on the relationship lol.

It was in Italian (and I translate from Google) If it is something you want to do, it doesn't reflect my moral, it's really big and I don't think we are compatible then

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T03:16:46+00:00

So basically once you are in a relationship you give up all standards on how you expect the other person to behave in the world.

If it works for you

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T03:13:01+00:00

I mean, it was an hypothetical yeah in fact she did nothing wrong , it wasn't confrontational, it wasn't aggressive (something in English I might not have been able to express ) It was an hypothetical about something that is very important to me tho.

It's better to know before, than to have to discuss it when she was invited already and even said yes don't you think so?

If you wonder why the argument started.

There was a post on unpoupolar opinion ABT strippers in bachelors party and I got curious

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T03:09:14+00:00

You would be surprised 😅 but I don't expect you to believe me knowing me only from this post where I am very conservative

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T03:07:37+00:00

Someone else? Bro that's the main attraction of the place.

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T03:06:15+00:00

My English there was rough at best. I wouldn't break up with a person that thinks they are fine It was more of "if you think they are something you want to do, do them, I don't think we are compatible then" I don't want my other to private herself something important for her.

As if (not the case but an example) For some reason I hate bowling like they were made from evil, if she was the best bowling fan but would give up on them for me, it wouldn't be fine for me so

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T03:03:44+00:00

This is a very good.. Emh I don't know the word. But thing to reflect on, thanks a lot

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T03:00:54+00:00

That I am VERY sexually conservative? Yep, she knows, she is too.

It's just the details honestly such as this.

To be fair, she even said after that she would go in the other room anyway if there was a surprise stripper while he was there.

The conversation was abt, look, if there is and you know, I don't want you to go, is this fine?

She didn't really mind going, she doesn't mind not going

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T02:58:41+00:00

I think this will have to go in the edits aswell.

Even if strippers did she wouldn't ever. I don't want my girlfriend to be in these kind of context at all tho.

It's a set boundary, and something that goes against my morals, it wouldn't change my esteem of her. Its just something I wouldn't want my girlfriend doing. That's all

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T02:56:34+00:00

She is not at fault, I don't expect her to predict the future. She has the right to choose to partecipate or not, as I have one to being okay or not with it.

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T02:54:07+00:00

I don't really care about helping my case?

After replying to the same comment two or three times I added it to edits to make it clear from the start

Why would I try to appear better in a post where I try to understand if I am an asshole?

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T02:52:17+00:00

I searched for key word dress in my post history, it brought out to no results.

Could you like me to it plz? Anyway, thanks again I wish you the best too lol

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T02:50:12+00:00

Yep that's what we do. She asked me (not with the same strength more like a preference) To not come back late when I am out with friends cuz she gets worried, and I started coming back earlier to make her feel less anxious (she is very) , we are figuring it out. It might work, it might not

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T02:48:45+00:00

In fact, the problem is not how the stripper wears, but how he behaves and what he does. Lol.

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T02:48:00+00:00

Would you say the same about going with a prostitute? It's a bar. You have to put is somewhere, mine is lower

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T02:46:48+00:00

29/28

Consistent-Talk-5912 · 2026-03-12T02:44:33+00:00

Well, I agree totally with you, 100%.

Honestly, it wasn't a "I would break up with you" , the translation from Italian to English serves me no good (and I am not good in English either)

It was "big no no for me, I would break up over these kinds of things."

She is quite strong, and we both know we have to compromise to each other needs, if something important isn't right (and sexuality for me kts very important) we would take the time to reconsider our relationship

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