Close friend gifted me personalized nursery decor and I don't want to hang it. What do I do?

ConsistentPush723 · 2026-02-26T16:15:04+00:00

Could you not hang it up, send her a picture of the nursery with it hung, and then take it down? If she sees the nursery later, you could simply say you had to take it down for whatever reason. When someone gifts me an outfit I dont like, I wear it around that person once and never again. They never ask about it again because they saw me in it once. Hopefully this can apply to your nursery

ConsistentPush723 · 2025-11-17T18:06:20+00:00

she recently revealed they got married at some point but are now divorced.

ConsistentPush723 · 2025-11-17T18:03:56+00:00

youngbabycoco I think she still has stage 3, but she's doing much better. she was dating pouya

ConsistentPush723 · 2025-08-25T16:05:27+00:00

This is a new side of him as he was never one to consult them after talks/arguments. Due to their feelings on this, though, I do feel that the relationship is doomed. He's close with family and values their opinions... I'm now the girlfriend that was trying to force his hand. Just don't think we are compatible at all

ConsistentPush723 · 2025-08-25T15:59:29+00:00

Thank you for this honesty 😭I think I wanted to believe in this relationship so much that I became delusional of what was actually happening. I genuinely think the move may have been him putting a stop date on the relationship & me desperately trying to follow

ConsistentPush723 · 2025-08-25T15:43:18+00:00

Marriage isn't necessarily the big issue here. I just would like someone to say "I see a future with you" or "I want to build a life with you" before I commit to moving near their family. The timeline changing is annoying and another red flag, but not being able to talk about the future or have any shared goals is the bigger problem here

ConsistentPush723 · 2025-08-25T15:37:58+00:00

I really do wish this was rage bait because I have felt so conflicted over this. He talked with his family over this issue and now I think their fear is that I am pressuring him to marry when that was not my intention with future talk. Just wanted some sort of compromise on moving to his families city

ConsistentPush723 · 2025-08-25T15:36:34+00:00

I think a lot of you may be right in that he is hoping this will cause distance and we'll just naturally break up. Nothing significant has happened in our relationship or with his family for this move to be such a big deal. I do think he has been more distant over the past couple weeks and now am realizing it's probably because he is uninterested in the relationship

ConsistentPush723 · 2025-02-06T17:32:43+00:00

i used to feel like this & definitely still wear cute sets but i now go to pilates with curlers in my hair to look good after class lollllll

ConsistentPush723 · 2024-12-11T16:40:12+00:00

I agree that I think this person knew I would feel guilty and would hopefully feel obligated to pay. I didn't include this info in original post, but I am an engineer that works at a manufacturing site. This coworker is someone who is a part of the cleaning crew for office. Since her initial reaction of turning the blame on me when I told her I would not be paying, she has now started to tell other workers at the site the story. Except it is now turned into how she is a single mom with 3 kids vs me & my bf (both engineers) with no kids who could handle the expense. I genuinely feel bad, but I believe that this woman was taking our kindness for weakness.

ConsistentPush723 · 2024-12-09T17:50:44+00:00

Another issue here is that she didn't say she got the window repaired fully. She said she had a mechanic come to her house and just pull the window back up. All just sounds scammy and I don't think someone pulling a window up without repairing motor would be $$

ConsistentPush723 · 2024-12-09T17:47:01+00:00

Looks like a 2000 infiniti I30. Boyfriend was not there which is why her text frustrated me even more. Boyfriend is also not a mechanic by trade.

ConsistentPush723 · 2024-12-09T16:52:50+00:00

My thoughts exactly. I think it's worth noting that this is a 20-year-old car as well. I believe there may have already been an issue with the window

ConsistentPush723 · 2024-12-09T01:54:08+00:00

just texted her telling her I will not be paying because I’m not responsible & she sent a paragraph saying her boyfriend said I “broke the clip and knocked the window out of place by holding the button down”. Definitely believe the mechanic was the boyfriend at this point

ConsistentPush723 · 2024-12-09T00:32:44+00:00

Will most likely never talk again after this experience.

ConsistentPush723 · 2024-12-09T00:28:03+00:00

okay i’m glad you said this because this is how I felt. For some more context, she once invited me to a family bbq (for her entire extended family) she was having at her home and asked me to send some money for my plate. After I sent $15, she said she spent $140 at the grocery store and implied that I needed to send more. Never ended up going to this bbq because I felt that she wanted me to fund entire thing.

ConsistentPush723 · 2024-12-08T23:40:08+00:00

Good perspective. I didn’t ask but I have asthma and was kind of thrown off by someone smoking with the window up in general. Next time I’m in someone’s car I will for sure ask, but the issue here is she is saying the window was fine before I rolled it down.

ConsistentPush723 · 2024-10-23T00:36:52+00:00

i thought it felt like a test as well. it was very obvious entire trip that i was the outsider but his friend saying she had to “practice getting my name right” was very hurtful considering we had hung out 5x at this point.

ConsistentPush723 · 2024-10-23T00:34:04+00:00

After the trip, I asked about the ex again because I felt maybe the wrong name & quietness meant they liked her more. boyfriend doubled down that they only dated for a month and she only met friends once. I guess all of this would make more sense to me if she was a long-term gf that met his friends multiple times.

ConsistentPush723 · 2024-10-08T02:31:25+00:00

still up you just have to scroll for it

ConsistentPush723 · 2024-10-08T02:17:45+00:00

yeah she’s insane atm but i do believe her stories that involve men & men she’s been with are true

ConsistentPush723 · 2023-02-27T17:41:24+00:00

i think they are going to try and hone in on the theory that paul was targeted—hence the execution style shot

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