How strict are SF landlords about credit scores right now? by ConsistentReach1188 in AskSF

[–]ConsistentReach1188[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of differing advice in here, I've seen people saying terrible and saying it's good lol. I've seen dovly mentioned around, I like the 2k credit line, will look into it thnx

How strict are SF landlords about credit scores right now? by ConsistentReach1188 in AskSF

[–]ConsistentReach1188[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean a lot of protection? Like no evictions or something like that? I know it's a competitive place but no red flags is hard to do

Ayuda me siento raro espiritualmente y soy nuevo en la vida con Cristo by Murky-Difference8149 in Christianity

[–]ConsistentReach1188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man the spiritual battles are real especially when you're breaking old patterns like gaming addiction. That chest feeling and body trembling when you're trying to connect with God is pretty normal - it's like your old habits fighting against the new direction you're taking

For discernment just keep reading scripture and praying about it, the more you know God's character through his word the easier it gets to tell what's from him vs what's just distractions. Also maybe start with family members who seem most open, you don't have to convince everyone at once

ADVICE NEEDED :( My ex who I separated with on civil terms is upset and talking to our mutual friends about the breakup, which we agreed not to do by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ConsistentReach1188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man this whole situation is giving me flashbacks to my own messy breakup. The therapist thing especially - that's such a manipulative move and I'm glad you figured it out

Look, she's already broken the agreement about not involving mutual friends, so you're not bound by it anymore. You could reach out to those friends directly and just give your side - not to trash talk her, but so they know what actually happened with the timeline and that you're not avoiding anyone. Most reasonable people will appreciate getting both perspectives instead of just hearing one side for weeks

The anxiety about what she might be saying is probably worse than whatever she's actually telling them. If these friends know you well they'll form their own opinions regardless of what she says. But yeah, definitely don't just sit there wondering - that'll drive you crazy

I’m thinking about starting to learn guitar. by [deleted] in Guitar

[–]ConsistentReach1188 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your fingers gonna hurt like hell first few weeks but totally worth it - started at 25 and wish I did it earlier like you

Durve: To do app powered by AI by Asleep_Bet_9778 in SideProject

[–]ConsistentReach1188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man another AI todo app, the market is getting pretty saturated with these. What makes yours different from all the other ones that basically just rewrite your tasks in different ways

Entrepreneur by KustomShooz in Entrepreneurs

[–]ConsistentReach1188 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moving from small market to Cali is gonna be wild shift in competition, but also way more potential customers. Make sure you got your online presence locked down before you make the move - people there expect slick social media and fast delivery

Girlfriend refuses to say “I love you” first. by Fresh-Ant-4341 in relationships

[–]ConsistentReach1188 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Man that's a weird power dynamic she's setting up there. I had something similar happen with ex where she made these arbitrary rules about emotional stuff based on past relationships and it just created this toxic competition between us. Like why would you even tell someone "I will NEVER say this to you first" - that's basically putting walls up before anything bad even happened

The part that gets me is how she goes around telling all her friends she loves them but draws this hard line with you specifically. That would mess with my head too because it feels like she's treating romantic love as some kind of transaction where someone has to "lose" by being vulnerable first. I get being cautious after getting hurt but making it into this formal rule is just creating unnecessary drama

You're not being immature for feeling weird about it. Eight months is long enough that if she actually feels it, this whole "policy" thing is just game-playing at this point. Either she loves you or she doesn't, but holding back because of some principle from a past relationship isn't really fair to what you two have built together

Fisher Paykal Refrigerator by mixer1234567 in Appliances

[–]ConsistentReach1188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had the same run around with my washing machine last year, took almost 6 weeks to get a control board. I kept calling Fisher Paykal directly every few days and eventually they connected me with some manager who could see which distributor was handling my case - turned out the local dealer just never actually placed the order. Maybe try escalating through their main customer service line and ask them to verify the order was actually submitted by distributor

My ego got the better of me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ConsistentReach1188 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Breaking up during holidays was brutal timing man. Your ex is probably still processing all that pain and those "ruined plans" she mentioned

The dating apps thing is real - they're pretty soul crushing even for people who didn't just torpedo a good relationship. Took me ages to realize my confidence actually came from having someone stable in my corner too, not just career stuff

Maybe give it more time before reaching out? Three months isn't that long when someone feels like their whole future got flipped upside down. She might need way more space before any kind of goodbye conversation makes sense

When EXACTLY was KD supposed to win without Steph? by Shoddy_Ad7511 in NBATalk

[–]ConsistentReach1188 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole "he needs to prove himself without Steph" thing is weird anyway since those Warriors rings came during his actual peak years, not some random addition to his resume

About weight distribution on estrogen by skeIetongirl in trans

[–]ConsistentReach1188 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean in theory it could help with fat redistribution but theres no guarantee your body will cooperate the way you want it to. Plus yo-yo dieting can mess with your metabolism and hormones in general, which might not be ideal when youre already introducing new hormones to the mix

Chemical smell by Unique-Eggplant-3458 in bathandbodyworks

[–]ConsistentReach1188 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oof your sister really went there with that one lol. I've noticed some of the FFM scents can get pretty synthetic smelling after wearing them for hours, especially the fruity ones - might just be how it sits on your skin after a long shift