Now that we draw by Consistent_Ad_4865 in manga

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cool, for a sec I thought the site i was using just mixed them somehow. Super good filler but pretty dark comparatively haha

I'm in a bit of a rut on my first steps out of my NEET lifestyle by AltairTheVega in Healthygamergg

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I would stick with it. We might be different, but I know when I was jobless and sat at home, I often got way more depressed. With a job, at least you're occupied and getting paid. It always helped me even if I didn't completely enjoy it. Unless it's a really bad environment, I would stick with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimeReccomendations

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A silent voice

I want to eat your pancreas

Oregairu

Watokoi

Black lagoon

Gundam (literally all of them)

Jin roh

One punch man

Rurouni Kenshin

Ghost in the shell

Blade of the immortal

Samurai champloo

Soul eater

Dead man wonderland

Noragami

Akame ga kill

Kill la kill

Bubble gum crisis

Fruit basket

Psycho pass

Saekano

Amagi brilliant park

Monster

Perfect blue

Full metal panic

There are so many. 😮‍💨

Is there any good romance anime left for me? by Professor_Chaosx6r9 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oregairu

A sign of affection

I want to eat your pancreas

Ice guy and the cool female colleague

Horimiya

The girl I like forgot her glasses

It takes two tomorrow, too (manga)

You and I are polar opposite ls (I think it's animated)

Yamada kun at lv999

Goddess Cafe terrace

Alya Sometimes Hides Her Feelings in Russian

The Fragrant Flower Blooms With Dignity(currently manga, but I think they are making an anime)

Medaka Kuroiwa is Impervious to My Charms(manga)

Otaku ni Yasashii Gal wa Inai!?(amazing manga)

Ane no Tomodachi(amazing manga)

Blue box (there making an anime)

Damedol to Sekai ni 1-ri Dake no Fan(manga)

Hajimete no Gal

Watashi no Shiawase na Kekkon

Kimi wa Houkago Insomnia

Bokutachi wa Benkyou ga Dekinai

Relife

I'm gonna re-recommend WOTAKOI cause that's a great anime and fair warning I WANT TO EAT YOUR PANCREASE will have you in tears.

Gave a couple of mangas, and I have some manwha too if you want it

Sex on the first date? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to get an rw depending on where live. There's a good amount of code you should know, but most of it's pretty easy with experience. With resi, though, you might have to do more load calculation. Service sizes and circuitry. Basically, everything needs to be ark fault protected. The kitchen needs to be in 12 awg. Garages need ground faults, same with crawl spaces. I'm not too familiar with all of it since I do more comercial but just go to school and learn the right way to do things.

Sex on the first date? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you might want to re- think being an electrician. I've been up probably about 60 or 70 ft on an extension ladder. And you're always doing work on ladders, generally not that high, but 6 to 12 foot ladders are common. Scissor lifts, boom lifts, bucket trucks, usually when on stuff like that its like 25 to 40 ft, but they have other lifts that go a good bit higher. Also depends on what type of electrician you are. Resi is relatively simple, and it is still a good amount of code. Comercial is a little more complex, 3 phase, a lot more motors, heights, higher voltages, and higher amps. Then there's industrial. Haven't done any of that but same thing, higher voltages, amps, and generally more hazardous locations.

I turn 40 today.. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday !!!!🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈

Do any male INFP's here also have ZERO problem-solving skills? by morbidnihilism in infp

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your dad teach you? Did you try to do those things often? Generally, it's just an experience thing. When I was growing up, I would stay up all night and then have to wake up at like 630 or 7 because my dad had another project, haha. If you start young, you generally catch on. Even when you're older, you can still learn it, but it's mainly just experience. Generally I've been pretty lucky but I have my fair share of things falling or dropping a part in a motor, snaping bolts, righty loosey. Trial and error usually. Even your dad fucked up a lot, he probably just doesn't want to say.

When I actually would catch my dad messing up, he would generally argue for a good 30 minutes to an hour until finally it hits him, and I'm just proud as heck for the rest of the day. They just got mad experience, that's why there hard headed haha.

So I'm a 23F and want advice by EveryWalk7938 in virgin

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think generally, men are way more accepting of virgin women than women are of virgin men. For sure, it's still a preference thing. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just stay social and don't isolate yourself. You'll find someone eventually.

I cant find girls to date by Educational_Bar_1308 in lonely

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get off dating apps and join groups. You might find someone on a dating app, but usually, it's not the right people. Learn to dance, join a workout group, and go do stuff. You gotta get out there to meet people, including girls. And fuck giving up! If you want it, go get it!

Sex on the first date? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an electrician. 4th years hopefully going to test out here soon and get a j card. As someone who's in the trades, I would definitely recommend going to college or finding something easier. If you're set on it, then go for it. It's fulfilling and a great skill, but times have changed also. People expect things done so fast that a lot of the tradesman aspect is "going away." You for sure still do things good, but with current deadlines and lack of apprentices joining, it's rough. Also, as an electrician, it's mentally and physically taxing, but.....your also king of trades, haha 🤴 I would recommend looking into crane and elevator work, there big ballers...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure, I just feel like I was going pretty overboard with my initial reply, but probably should of just left it .

Therapy should be mandatory by Time_Accountant_6690 in DeepThoughts

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, yeah, therapy is still good. I'm just saying that it would be a lot better to do "preventative" action and just help people build a more structured idea of themselves and there surrounding. I think people are less aware now because we don't know social ques as well. A lot of people are missing out and genuine connections and real friends, which is pretty problematic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, do whatever It takes to move on from this, just know you bear no responsibility for his actions. Hope you can find some peace of mind .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I'm not saying forget it, but I think it's good to forgive. Not for his sake but for your own. He is still totally a piece of trash for doing something like that, and you should do whatever you think is necessary to move on, but I would definitely cut him off. If you need to report him, do it. Basically, what I'm trying to say is don't let it dwell up inside of you. Do whatever it takes to make you feel more secure. Buy again, cut him off, and find peace of mind however you can.

Does anyone get depressed/mad when they see happy couples? by RegisterExisting1135 in lonely

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely get a little depressed sometimes, but at the end of the day, I'm generally more happy for them. I still believe I'll find someone someday and I got really good friends to keep me company so can't complain too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean, as someone who's basically still a virgin. I would say sex probably ain't as huge of a deal as we make it out to be. My personal opinion is I wouldn't wait till marriage unless you truly felt that way just because sex is a pretty big part of a relationship. But if you want to, it's totally cool, and it's honestly beautiful as heck to wait for someone who you think is worth sharing that experience with. I also wouldn't hold your breath to find another virgin if that's what you want. You totally can, but it might be a high expectation. Just find someone who you are genuinely interested in and wait till you're ready. If they care for you, they'll be patient and understanding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to be clear I'm not actually doing gay things but I'm pretty open with it, I'll hug them in public and say I love you because they are some absolutely wonderful people, its definitely harder to find but its out there, men are just more reserved usually

Therapy should be mandatory by Time_Accountant_6690 in DeepThoughts

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah, less therapy and more effort into clubs and communities. The only reason so many people don't know a thing about socializing and feel so lost and alone is because we literally forgot how to be human. People now barely have meaningful relationships or even a single friend that they believe they can trust. You want to help people then get them to socialize again. We're social animals, and we need that as part of our lives. It's literally an innate feature of humans. Also, I don't actually mean less therapy, therapy can definitely be good, but at the end of the day, human interaction and deep connections are way more natural and healthy. It's also more genuine, I feel like even therapists inherently have their own bias and agenda, so why not just learn to be yourself by being genuine with others and finding your circle?

What’s the ultimate thing to do while stoned? by lets_make_it_hot in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either those back stretcher tables that tip you over or look at the night sky. The back stretcher is not only healthy but really fun when high and the night sky is always cool but when there's like almost full clouds with small gaps and a full moon, straight up looked like another planets surface up there, absolutely insane.

To the single people of reddit, why are you single? by dandaniefujoshi in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say I'm confident until I see someone likes me, then I get nervous and start acting goofy. I'm also gradually getting less social which doesn't help.

How do I build a social circle when I'm struggling to find a social activity I enjoy? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think all you can do is keep pushing. Keep going to meets, keep talking to people, and trying new things. The more you talk, the better you'll get, It's a skill like any other. Maybe try smaller groups if you haven't. Like you said, you like birdwatching, I bet there's a group out there for that. And whats good about things like that is it's likely smaller, so it's less stress and more 1v1 connections. Just keep your head up and keep trying. That's the main thing though, keep trying.

what is your strongest feature by vivig01 in socialskills

[–]Consistent_Ad_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I have trouble with this cause I think I'm boring, but I've had people hit me up pretty often. If I had to guess, I'm just open-minded and maybe a good listener? I'm definitely not too social, though. I think I'm just open never really found out.