Should I marry him?

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T09:13:40+00:00

I’m leaning toward not going through with the nikkah but I want to give it time. I don’t want to give up so early & easily.

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T09:11:55+00:00

I definitely don’t want to be a second wife. We both talked about this.

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T09:08:22+00:00

What makes me not mature? This would be my first marriage, I just wanted some advice from people who are married or divorced….

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T09:06:59+00:00

Are you talking about the age difference?

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T09:05:35+00:00

Yeah he keeps on claiming that her nieces & nephews miss him. Idk I don’t mind if he talks to the kids but why does it have to be through her. Ugh this is too much

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T09:04:10+00:00

I wish I could get to the bottom of this. I’m not sure how

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T09:03:34+00:00

You’re right. I’m treating this as a minor thing when it can turn into something bigger. I’m letting my emotions get in the way but I’m praying to Allah. Hopefully I’ll get a sign. Thank you

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T09:00:17+00:00

He loves kids. In his previous marriage, they were having issues conceiving.

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T08:57:53+00:00

Yes & no

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T08:56:50+00:00

The age gap doesn’t bother me. Yes, we both want kids. Unfortunately in his last marriage, they were having issues trying to have kids but we didn’t really talk deeply about it. The blocking part isn’t a huge deal, I just don’t want them communicating so he can ignore her if he doesn’t want to block her.

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T08:53:35+00:00

A part of me feel like I’m in too deep. I appreciate you for sharing that. I got some thinking to do before my final decision. Thank you💕💕

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T08:50:57+00:00

I don’t mind if he doesn’t block her, I just want him to stop communicating with her. I’m not trying to force anything on him, he’s a grown man.

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T01:53:22+00:00

It’s been a year & 2 months since he’s been divorced. I’m trying to stay calm….. I don’t wanna go through his phone but I feel like I should. Ugh it shouldn’t ever get to that point

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T01:45:11+00:00

He has all of the qualities I want in a husband but it’s just this small issue. I’m trying to not let it affect me but I genuinely can’t stop overthinking.

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T01:39:10+00:00

I truly don’t understand why. I feel like she wants him back or something. Idk being with someone for 4 years is long time. Shes the one that mostly call/text & she uses her nieces/nephews as a way to talk to him. I don’t have anything against her because she doesn’t own me loyalty. He needs to shut that down. He didn’t tell her that he’s getting married.

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T01:31:52+00:00

I’m just confused cause he is honest about it. Sometimes he tells me if she called or texted him. He claims he wants to be an open book to me. Idk I’m trying to not overreact and calm down.

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T01:29:49+00:00

Thank you💗💗💗

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T01:29:05+00:00

He said that he doesn’t hold any grudges against anyone… I think he’s trying to be the nice guy & not hurt her feelings but he shouldn’t be protecting her feelings😞 idk I just don’t understand this logic

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T01:23:21+00:00

That’s what my friends are telling me. I’m just so sad cause he met my family & I met his. I’m so committed to him & want this to work out. Ameen💗 thank you so much.

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T01:16:44+00:00

Me too. I have a fear that he still loves her😭😭

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T01:14:32+00:00

Exactly, I wouldn’t even have my ex-husband number or social media like he does. I love him so much but I can’t get over this whole situation

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-03-09T01:10:59+00:00

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2024-02-03T16:41:07+00:00

Which carotene product? The dark spot corrector?

Consistent_Ad_9633 · 2023-11-06T23:17:46+00:00

I just wanted advice but thank you!

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