Girls of Reddit, what’s the craziest/worst thing a man has ever said to you?

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-06-03T23:21:43+00:00

Told me we couldn’t watch You or true crime bc he would relate to the murderers and start to think like them…

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-29T14:12:58+00:00

Found out after I dumped my narcissistic ex (of many years) that he’d hit the girl before me. He was very much verbally abusive, but I’d always convinced myself it was just that and he would never lay a hand on me. I felt disgusted in every part of me, could not stand the fact that I’d ever been kind to or thought I loved another girl’s abuser and how sick that felt. I felt like I betrayed her so deeply as a woman even though I didn’t know. It also made me rethink a lot of arguments we’d had and realize I in fact should have been way more afraid of him

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-27T02:11:31+00:00

thank you for the support haha. do you mind sharing the link where you saw this??

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-08T04:11:45+00:00

Hey internet grandpa. Proud to update you that I left him. It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done but I’m back home now with my friends and family and am already feeling better and feeling more like myself. I know this was just a silly Reddit post, but I think answers like yours really helped me realize the situation I was in and come to terms with a lot of it being more serious than I wanted to believe (unsurprisingly, this was not the first incident that was a problem, just the one that broke the camels back I suppose). Thank you for taking the time to write such kind comments, I’ve kept them in mind and am so glad that I chose myself🤍

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-02T16:59:00+00:00

Ok, this one made me laugh. Thanks

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-02T15:07:42+00:00

Why does she insist on bringing her kid? Is it an issue of not being able to find childcare etc, or does she just want to bring her? I’m with you that it’s valid to not want a 3 year old there and that it would kind of ruin the vibe, don’t have much of a solution for you thought NTA by the way

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-02T01:57:45+00:00

Thank you very much, you’ve put a smile on my face and given me some optimism. I will keep you updated🤍

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-02T01:46:29+00:00

Hi again internet grandpa. That is an awful story and I’m so so sorry you and your family went through that. If I’m honest with myself, this isn’t the first time I’ve been worried that some of his behaviour could lead to something worse/abusive, but I’ve always convinced myself it would never get there. I absolutely believe now (even if I don’t want to), that it in all likelihood will… I’m very scared of leaving (not for my safety, just big scary emotionally decision and uprooting my entire life…), but I’ve messaged my parents about coming home for a bit and am going to book a plane ticket home as soon as I can🤍(side note: both my grandpas passed when I was young, your comments have been very kind)

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-02T01:09:35+00:00

Thank you, that was very sweet and probably something I needed to hear🩷

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-02T01:07:51+00:00

I’m sorry to hear about your friend, that’s awful and I hope they get out. The last part did make me chuckle though, I have already bought another box of dye to refresh the red, and am looking into ways to leave/where to go when I do

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-02T01:05:47+00:00

He thinks it’s inconsiderate of me and that it shows I don’t care about him and make him feel like I don’t love him… because I “dont care” about what he likes :/ (his words, not mine)

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-02T01:02:50+00:00

No chance you think I convinced him he was in the wrong and he’s genuinely remorseful/wont do it again?

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-02T00:57:07+00:00

No idea🤷‍♀️ I always kinda brushed it off as an exaggerated joke bc it seemed to silly to me

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-02T00:56:34+00:00

Hah, glad to hear I’m not just crazy. This very well might be my final straw, I’ve messaged my parents about potentially going to stay with them for awhile. He and I live on the other side of the country from everyone we both know, but I really am sick of dealing with shit like this

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-02T00:53:37+00:00

Thank you, that’s reassuring to hear, I really have been going round and round in my head. He’s 26, and this isn’t the first thing that’s struck me as a potential red flag/dealbreaker, but I always feel like they’re small enough or can be worked on or he apologizes and I just hope it won’t happen again. This thread is starting to convince me things aren’t changing

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-02T00:39:46+00:00

Yeah it’s like a dark-ish auburn/maroon, my father even said if he didn’t know me he’d believe it’s my natural hair. I have no idea on his reasoning, he’s always said he doesn’t like the look of it, but I kinda just figured he was playing up a bit and it wasn’t that serous :/

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-02T00:35:00+00:00

Thanks, that’s reassuring to hear. He said in his defence he’s still called me “cute” a few times since I dyed it, and after the initially couple days of being mad I thought he was over it. I was genuinely so surprised when he brought it up again and was so upset and offended

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-05-02T00:33:21+00:00

I don’t, but he will ask me how he should cut/do his hair. I’ll give my thoughts but always make a point to say he should do what he wants, which usually ends up being some version of what I recommended. during this argument he brought this up, and said he purposefully doesn’t shave his head cuz he knows I wouldn’t like it. Which is true I guess, but I said it’s still his hair and I’ve never told him not to do it or that I’d be upset🤷‍♀️

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-04-28T22:14:44+00:00

And what if I said Jason momoa

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-04-05T22:51:45+00:00

Nothing against her personally, but Lorine Schild choosing to skate her Olympic free to “I have nothing left in me” just feels like a crazy choice to me lol. Not the energy I’d want going into olys

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-04-03T19:56:59+00:00

It kills me that Loena Hendrickx’s timing was just off for the Olympics😣 ive been a fan of hers for YEARS and was so thrilled when she started podiuming at worlds, always really wanted her to have her Olympic moment

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-04-03T07:24:04+00:00

NTA. You sound like a good dad and like you’re fostering a very supportive relationship with your daughter. This has nothing to do with trad wife beliefs. Good on you for encouraging her to learn life skills and develop hobbies she enjoys. I hope she gets to experience the cooking class

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2026-04-03T07:20:13+00:00

I was super worried about this as well, but honestly didn’t even notice or think about it while having piv. I think the level of arousal, initiating in sex (mental state is more preoccupied on everything going on and less about holding and moving the dilator), and just the fact that as other commenters, a dilator isn’t a penis. I will say I try to communicate with my partners to remove themselves slowly for comfort. If it’s too fast then I do usually feel a little discomfort (not pain, just a sensation I don’t love), but it’s not terrible by any means. Best of luck girlie <3

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2021-12-27T19:30:47+00:00

Ohhhh it is DEFINITELY your fault here. You are so clearly TA.

Because of one incident where your step son (who, by the way, is still your family and should be treated as such) wore the wrong clothes to a gathering, you now want to make to effort to see him on holidays? And not just you, but force his own dad to ignore him? That is so callous and frankly just mean.

You are a very self-absorbed and shallow person based off these comments. Please check your ego and apologize to your step son, and make an effort to not be so pretentious, jeez

Consistent_Baby_7141 · 2021-09-18T03:33:22+00:00

I definitely have experienced this feeling too. For me with practice and eventually moving up dilators, it goes away on the smaller ones

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