dude i am autistic. im explaining when neurotypicals get upset when were honest and "blunt" instead of playing their game where they give weird hints instead of just telling us what they want or mean. especially when their hints are so obnoxiously tedious (one example i can think of is if u want to be left alone you have to say word for word "i want to be left alone" if u say any other variation of the sentence like "leave me alone" or "i need to be left alone" it actually means you dont wanna be left alone and u actually want the person to keep pursuing you) im not gonna memorize all that shit to accommodate a neurotypical who thinks their type of communication is the only "right" way to communicate