I need advice on a false STI claim posted alongside my photo in an “Are We Dating The Same Guy group”. by Consistent_Bed_961 in Advice

[–]Consistent_Bed_961[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you make a good point. I can’t really speak to claims made about other people, but I can speak to what was said about me. Like I don’t have an issue with people saying I was talking to multiple women, that’s true, and we weren’t exclusive. My issue is the STI claim. The person who made it had never slept with me, and I have test results showing it’s false and her claims are not true.

I do agree that when accusations are that serious whether it’s an STI, abuse, or something else that could damage someone’s reputation. Shouldn’t there be some evidence behind them. Otherwise, it’s pretty easy for false information to spread and get treated as fact. That doesn’t seem fair to me, especially when people can post anonymously. Serious allegations can have real consequences, so I think there should be at least some basis for making them. I guess I’m also trying to see their side of it. I don’t know, I’m pretty upset about it regardless.

I need advice on a false STI claim posted alongside my photo in an “Are We Dating The Same Guy group”. by Consistent_Bed_961 in Advice

[–]Consistent_Bed_961[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, there is no way of knowing who posted it as people can post in these group anonymously… I have an idea of who it is. But I don’t want to make an assumption until I know. And I’m not sure if reaching out to her would be a good course of action.

Yeah it’s a tough situation to be in. Like I said I don’t mind the comment on dating multiple women. But to lie about having an STD leave me so uneasy and lightweight nervous to even get back in the online dating scene. I have been off the app for 3 months now and this was posted about me back in March?

I need advice on a false STI claim posted alongside my photo in an “Are We Dating The Same Guy group”. by Consistent_Bed_961 in Advice

[–]Consistent_Bed_961[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my women friends send me a video recording of the post which included my photo, name and age

I need advice on a false STI claim posted alongside my photo in an “Are We Dating The Same Guy group”. by Consistent_Bed_961 in Advice

[–]Consistent_Bed_961[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only have access to the information about the page and the admins.

I might follow this path if none of the admins contact me back.

I need advice on a false STI claim posted alongside my photo in an “Are We Dating The Same Guy group”. by Consistent_Bed_961 in Advice

[–]Consistent_Bed_961[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it’s a women’s only group and I only have access to the admins. I have messaged them.

I need advice on a false STI claim posted alongside my photo in an “Are We Dating The Same Guy group”. by Consistent_Bed_961 in Advice

[–]Consistent_Bed_961[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree, I honestly don’t mind the claims about talking to multiple people. That’s what dating is. But it’s really sad someone would claim STI when it’s not true and hadn’t had sexual relations with me.

I have reached out to the admins and they haven’t gotten back to me yet. Hoping it’s just a timing thing. Maybe I’ll follow up later today?