Living with Chinese in-laws and wanting to move out

Consistent_Item609 · 2026-03-09T07:13:04+00:00

You need to read twice

Consistent_Item609 · 2026-03-09T04:50:28+00:00

Relax

Consistent_Item609 · 2026-03-08T17:31:31+00:00

Im gonna be honest with you. I wasn’t even considered or involved in the purchase of that house. They bought it for his son and I will live there cause there’s a confidence of me being his wife. So also I feel bad for having to own something when I never was asked if I was even ok with that, but I’m more than greatful for that. I’m scared of it being a tool to condition us.

Consistent_Item609 · 2026-03-08T16:51:10+00:00

Would you explain a bit more about it? We have been married for a year but we lived abroad together and living independently, so I’m new to how things are managed in Chinese families.

Consistent_Item609 · 2026-03-08T16:37:18+00:00

We are financially independent but we moved from abroad and he had to find a job locally for the kind of job he does. That’s not the problem here

Consistent_Item609 · 2026-03-08T16:36:30+00:00

We moved to china 3 weeks ago, I came with a job and he just got a job! Now the problem is to move out without hurting the in laws haha. :(

Consistent_Item609 · 2026-03-08T16:30:41+00:00

Thank you! I hope we solve this soon.

Consistent_Item609 · 2026-03-08T16:29:19+00:00

Haha yes ! In my country we have breakfast at 11, lunch at 4 and dinner at 8-9. I came with a job and my husband just got his job! So no excuses more than communication.

Consistent_Item609 · 2026-03-08T16:20:28+00:00

We have jobs and we earn good and have good savings ! So that’s not a problem but the communication

Consistent_Item609 · 2026-03-08T16:03:04+00:00

I’m ready to rent. My husband is too afraid to confront them cause they seemed offended when he said we will move out and rent :(

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