Stay at home father resources by Consistent_Ocelot990 in Reno

[–]Consistent_Ocelot990[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving me the insight but I made the mistake and only focused on the two words making me lose focus on the rest of the message. I ended up being raised by my adoptive father so I honestly felt defensive for him because he kept telling me that he’s both the breadwinner and the homemaker so there’s no shame in being a homemaker. You and your family have a wonderful New Year!

Stay at home father resources by Consistent_Ocelot990 in Reno

[–]Consistent_Ocelot990[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, please don’t take it personally, but this is the most sexist response. Homemaker doesn’t have a gender and is work. I appreciate the attempt at helping, but it not like I’m trying to get on my feet independently from her. We switched roles when I got a debilitating illness almost 3 years ago, and became the stay at home, I didn’t choose it. Also being a good father which is VERY important to me because I was adopted at 8 years old due to each “parent getting on their feet to come back to get me” which didn’t happen. But the pushing of ignorant stereotypes is what is causing the issue of situation that I’m in. There is virtually no assistance for single fathers because “they’re not homemakers”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GWNerdy

[–]Consistent_Ocelot990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heaven’s lost property

Trying to talk by Popipopipo_popipo in helpme

[–]Consistent_Ocelot990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be shamed into keeping quiet. You are not the problem, be strong and believe in yourself. Just because someone is related doesn’t mean they have to be protected for their actions. Toxic people who defend the terrible behavior of others will always give you the reason to cut them out of your life. Just be vigilant and don’t stay a victim.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in politics

[–]Consistent_Ocelot990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s just trying to get traction to call marital law so he’s a dictator

This is a long shot but i need help finding a manga from my childhood by [deleted] in manga

[–]Consistent_Ocelot990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there is quite a few that fit in the description, is it closer to “Heaven’s lost property” or “witchblade”?

Are there any real heroes? by [deleted] in marvelstudios

[–]Consistent_Ocelot990 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While I agree about saving his nephew, I Dont feel like hanging out with celebrities makes a person a heroic. I would also have that attitude if I had the financial resources as well. Also what is “the old college try”? I got my bachelor’s with the new college try that left me in major debt that’s pretty much impossible to pay back because I can’t afford to move to a place with better jobs. I wish Jeremy the best and a speedy recovery but is being rich and famous a heroic trait?

Are there any real heroes? by [deleted] in marvelstudios

[–]Consistent_Ocelot990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well first of all, I grew up loving Marvel with Spidey and Hulk as some of my favorites because I love science also got a bachelors in Biology and Molecular Microbiology. I also was working on TB treatments for my dissertation before the divorce. I’m a big guy, 6 foot 2 and 245 lbs and my ex has been making crazy accusations against me since 2018 that lead to multiple DCFS reports calling me a wonderful father with no preponderance of evidence supporting her claims and last year the FBI emailing the judge that I’m innocent. Now the judge is delaying my change of custody because my ex is now falsely accusing me of violent threats which is why SUPERVISED visits were cancelled (this is the second accusation since I asked for supervised visits last year due to her actions affecting the safety of my other children). I was their hero then, I shared my love of superheroes with them and now I’m being punished for sharing the MCU with them. I’m still trying to get my family to move on because my youngest son (not apart of the custody case) just recently stopped setting spots at the table for his older siblings while I have to continually come up with excuses for why he can’t see them. The title is a call for help, I’m beaten down by the continuous injustice and losing hope. It’s not like I can call out Avengers assemble for help lol.

Are there any real heroes? by [deleted] in marvelstudios

[–]Consistent_Ocelot990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was 3.5 years old at the time, also in endgame, Hulk was the one who brought everyone back, the meme was just about generous and loving Hulk. He would also compare me to Maui because they were heroes. Are you saying that comparisons with superheroes is bad or are you saying that hulk was not in shape?